I need help getting an erection and i'm only 20
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:13 PM
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:24 PM
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:26 PM
that will be $5 to his unnumbered swiss bank account please
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:31 PM
unless you are just not sexually attracted to women. Then having sex with women is going to be difficult. If you think you might be gay, then perhaps you should explore that, or at the very least, explore why it is that you feel like you should marry a woman and have children with her. It's your long-term happiness that is at stake.
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:40 PM
And thanks ladies. Sometimes, due to random alignment of stars, I get it right.
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:54 PM
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 09:21 PM
I foresee a long and painful experience for you and the woman who marries you, should you go this route. Furthermore, I think it would come to a time when you could no longer deny your underlying feelings. That would tear up your family, be hard for your wife to handle, and make you feel bad for damaging the lives of your family and losing so much of your own life. Of course, I don't know, but I think it's a bad idea to try to fake being straight if you really are gay.
Whatever you choose, the strongest advice I have is to take your time. At 20, people still have a lot of mental and emotional developing to do. There's no need to rush into anything.
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 11:58 PM
I don't know how to break it to you, but dude, if this is truly how you feel then you are gay. BI people can have sex with both sexes, you can only have sex with one.
It may be possible that it is anxiety that is preventing your erection, but if you are not turned on by women, that is pretty much the definition of a gay male.
You are 20, take some time, there is no hurry to make life changing decisions. It may be other reasons why you are not attracted to a particular woman. You may be wrapping up guilt and other emotions that are clouding your judgement. However, the way you describe it in your post is, 1) you are gay and 2) you are embarrassed about it.
A good question to ask yourself is why you think you have to be normal? You can still get married and have kids and be gay.
I really think you need to talk to someone about it, I don't think that a forum is a good place for this.
Best of luck my friend!
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