put it where?! i dont know about that
Posted Mon Jun 28, 2010 02:05 AM
Posted Mon Jun 28, 2010 04:31 AM
Make him work your ass with his finger first to loosen you right up.
Posted Mon Jun 28, 2010 08:31 AM
I've done it a couple of time, and believe me using the vibe on your clit as he is just starting makes it much easier on you.
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 12:59 PM
like the others say: take it slowly! he can lick your ass first or use his finger or a toy. Maybe make massage of your back/buttocks part of it, so that you relax. Always use enough lubricant! What we usually do is that my girlfriend assume doggy style and I sit behind her. I play with her buttocks and sit still, while she slowly guides my cock in by moving backwards. Little but further slowly, until it's fully in and my balls touch her buttocks. Then I slowly start fucking her, which is very intense, until she relaxes further and we fuck wildly. In my experience, the first 5 times or so having anal sex are not the best (may even be a bit painful); you really need to get used to each other, trust each other, and your partner must relax/not be tensed to enjoy it to the most. In other words: just like the first time vaginal, it takes time to get it perfect! I think your girlfriend should be in charge, the last you want to do is fuck her too enthusiastic causing pain and her not willing to engage in anal sex again...
Enjoy, you'll be fine as long as you communicate!
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 01:13 PM
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 03:04 PM
For me, it's easier if I just had an orgasm. The most well-endowed man that I let do this would make me cum 3-4 times before even attempting it, and even then, he had to go really slow. The other thing that really helps me is tequila. I find it hard to be anything but relaxed under either of those circumstances.
There's a lot of good advise here. The most important thing is that you relax when he's penetrates you. Tensing up only makes it painful.
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 03:44 PM
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 06:29 PM
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 11:56 PM
That seems to be almost a must. One woman I lived with loved anal and was the one that talked me into it. She wanted to be real hot first then wanted me to fuck her ass real hard. Even if I came quick she would cum real hard with me. My last wife and I wanted to try it and she had never done it before. For some time before the first time I stretched her with my finger and thumb while doing it doggy. Then I took a clue from the other girl and got her real hot and lot of lube. It worked ok and it was something we did once in a while.