ever hooked up w/ a complete stranger?
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 05:23 PM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 05:31 PM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 06:29 PM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 06:44 PM
Never! But I'm also a girl that doesn't do condoms. I don't like killing the mood by worrying bout em, don't like to spend money on em, and don't like decreasing the pleasure...so I'd only go for someone I know and trust...
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 07:30 PM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 08:59 PM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 09:23 PM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 10:23 PM
At the bar sometimes someone will come up and talk to me and it will turn sexual rather quickly.
I met a girl at a laundry mat once and it turned into the same thing.
The joy is the thrill of it. How quick it sizzles and burns out of control.
In a relationship, even just a real sexual one, there's always a play of tension which is missing in a brief encounter.
They're not bad. I think they'd be less enjoyable for the woman (in general). It's just different.
As for wishing for one, I don't know. It either happens or it doesn't. If it doesn't, it's not exactly worth taking your life over. But good luck.
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 05:53 AM
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 09:49 AM
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 10:20 AM
I have had several experiences with casual sex, but it was always with someone who had known me in some ways before, e.g. a girl who I had known for a long or short time in a non-sexual/non-relationship way (e.g. a friend of my friends, colleague, friend of my colleague, ex-classmate etc...).
There was just one experience when I had sex with a girl on the same night I met her (=saw her for the first time in my life), but again it was not a complete stranger, we met for a different reason and the meeting was arranged through a friend of mine who had known her before I met her.
Of course, I do not include paid sex into this category because it is something different (different meaning of "mutual interest".
In my single periods I would more than welcome such opportunities of having sex with a complete stranger, now since I am in a satisfying relationship I have no interest in having sex with other people (whether they are strangers or not) and I have no interest in strangers (sexually or nonsexually), so logically I have no interest in having sex with strangers now...
This post has been edited by severin: Fri Jul 02, 2010 10:23 AM
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 02:33 PM
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 04:48 PM
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 04:59 PM
2. Don't talk about other relationships
3. Eye contact (I call this eye-fucking; sometimes words are cheap)
4. Above average performance!
5. Happy ending
6. No Hangups (complete understanding and respect of the situation, one time, weekly, never again)
I think I covered it for the most part.
p.s. if you are the one caught in someone elses hangup, keep your phone in hand and a ride home on speed dial (somepeople are crazy).