Loss of Sex Drive
Posted Mon Jul 05, 2010 02:40 AM
I have a problem while having sex with my girlfriend. When I start sex with her, it is great, but slowly it seems that I lose my sex drive, and my penis goes limp.
What shall I do to keep my sex drive going until my girl friend gets an orgasm and she is completely satisfied.
She loves me, but I don't want to lose her. Any help is appreciated.
Posted Mon Jul 05, 2010 03:18 AM
Try some new posoitions and see of the change in angle stimultes you more?
Posted Mon Jul 05, 2010 05:03 AM
Posted Mon Jul 05, 2010 08:31 AM
If you are referring to loss of your erection, then how long are we talking about, five minutes, an hour? Even though you are young and viral your penis isn’t designed to stay erect for hours at a time. It’s normal for your erection to wane and then return. It’s not an indication of a loss of sex drive as much as it’s your body trying to ensure a fresh supply of blood to the organ. If you are losing your erection after a few minutes, it might indicate a medical problem, and you should have it looked at. Don’t panic, it’s probably nothing, but better safe than sorry.
If you are refereeing to loss of desire, then you need to figure out what is going through your mind at the time. Are you stressed? Are you worried about being interrupted by her father or something? It could even be that you are worried about losing your erection that triggers the loss of your erection. Try to figure out what’s going on at the time, and then you can deal with that.
I hope this helps.
Posted Mon Jul 05, 2010 08:58 AM
Great advise, I was going to suggest the same thing.
To the OP, if your main priority is to get your girlfriend to climax then you could always make her cum before penetration. Myself personally, I always give the wife one to two orgasms before we move on to full penetration sex. Sometimes I will use some penetration as foreplay but then I pull out and begin to either toy with her pussy and clit with my fingers or I will go down on her and pleasure her with my mouth and tounge.
Remember, sex is not all about sticking your dick in and then pulling it back out. There are numerous forms of sexual acts that you can do and you should not limit yourself to one aspect of it all. Going limp happens to all of us at some point or another, some nights im super erect and can pound away for what seems hours and then other nights I can feel as though im going to cum quick or fee as though the wind at some point leaves my sails. Its what you do in the down time that makes the difference so when your cock is not at full erect, improvise my friend and stimulate your girl firend manually or orally. Eventually you will get hard again and then you can penetrate her til you yourself reach climax.