Why do white couples like having black men in their sex lives?
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 07:28 AM
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 08:02 AM
I went black a few months ago for the 1st time, It was with a black lady, I found it very enjoyable, she was very tight though.
Sex and the colour of skin does not really make a differnce, its a myth that black men have bigger cocks, some blacks have bigger cocks but not all blacks do.
have you ever gone white and what was it like for you? I would like to go asian oneday!
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 08:27 AM
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 09:13 AM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 02:18 AM
Just what I was going to say. Personal choice is personal choice. While I have had girlfriends of several races and about all types of looks I married two red heads. That is choice but to look for someone because of just race to me is racism.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 05:11 AM
but i can assure you, the only reason i have not had relations with a black or Asian woman is simply lack of opportunity. being said, I don't have any odd obsession with it, my girlfriend just happens to be white.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 03:35 PM
Well than I guess all those blonde bimbos I see with black guys dressing ghetto are racist.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 04:00 PM
If this is what you are asking then here is my opinion or thoughts behind it.
Rumor has it that black men are known to have massive cocks. ( rumors rumors )
It would appear as if maybe that the couple would be into large cock penetration. The husband might not be as well endowed and by going off of rumor they sought out a black man to fill that sexual void, for his visual enjoyment and her sexual satisfaction.
Also for many people, interacial sexual encounters are still considered a taboo. Maybe the husband and wife get off on taboo sex and that could also be another reason why they would search out a black man to participate in a threesome.
Again, seeing that you mentioned the word "couple" into your question, I am assuming that that is what you were asking, if not then disregard my post.
This post has been edited by Rob2000: Wed Jul 07, 2010 04:01 PM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 04:20 PM
I was told my entire life interracial sex (sex with anyone outside your race) is wrong and that I would be kicked out of my parents house as a teenager for even considering it. That was clearly racism but it happened. That it has now become something of therapy for me (sex with a person of another race) doesn't make me a racist for merely being conscious of the act and in particular enjoying the sct because it is with someone of another race, does it? Really?
To your question Blklondonguy it was amazing. My husband was not involved and does not know (he is a racist). I was at a conference in San Francisco and stayed over to avoid an additional 4 hour a day commute. I met him in the hotel bar on the first night of the conference. He too was there on business and staying in the hotel. We chatted easily and openly about everything which had not been my experience with most of the blk men I'd met in life I think because it was his first trip to the US (he was South African) and perhaps because he was free of much of the baggage that had kept me at arms length from most blk men growing up.
Chatting became dancing, dancing became slow dancing and slow dancing became a slow steady grind in a secluded corner with is face pressed to my neck and his muscled frame held firm against my soft curves. It was completely and totally outside my comfort zone and I loved it.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 05:01 PM
im not sure where youre getting that from.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 05:15 PM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 05:18 PM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 05:42 PM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 06:01 PM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 09:27 PM
im not sure where youre getting that from.
Porn. Duh! And i thought you were smart.
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 06:50 AM
with black girls before we married. I found that many, but not all. are expert in providing oral sex. However, I have found this to be much the same with
Asian and white women, as well.
One thing they all seem to share is that they often forget about their alleged faithfulness once a guy is out of sight.
This post has been edited by 2little2late: Thu Jul 08, 2010 06:51 AM
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 08:48 AM
With that said, My experience is different races act/perform/even taste different. I love variety and therefore love all races.
Beauty is beauty no matter what race you are and it is always in the eye of the beholder.
On to the black man doing the white wife. It is simply a fetish and a fantasy of many men/women gay and strait. The BBC Fetish is huge "no pun intended" because it has so many different meanings. Some couples live by the BBC in a cuckold relationship.
Sexuality is amazing because there are so many ways to explore it. Never knock anyone for expressing themselves in a way that you may not be open too. (obviously between consenting adults in a safe/legal environment)
Now, I am especially into Sexy/Thin Tanned Jews. (even though Jewish is not a race but a religion)
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 04:10 PM
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 04:19 PM
Well, yes and no. They are seen as a 'race' in the way that there are medical issues that is higher amongst Jewish peoples highly created by only allowing marriage amongst Jews. One must be born from a practising Jewish mother to be a Jew. If only the father is a practicing Jew, then the child is not a jew. etc
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 04:58 PM
Second, I've been with several races (1 white, 3 Asian, 1 Latino, 1 Native American, and 1 black). The size fit the stereotypes in my (limited) experience. There were also cultural differences in how they approached sex - only 2 of the guys being American.
Finally, I'm currently with the black guy. I like him for who he is. I didn't go looking for a black guy - I went looking for a guy, and the one who got me going happened to be black. I'm still really enjoying him, but should we break up, I wouldn't limit myself to a certain race. And I do enjoy the differences between us - it's interesting and educational.
As to the original question - why married white couples bring a black guy into a relationship, I'm inclined to agree with the novelty/fetish idea. Stereotypes and taboos against interracial relations probably play a role in it. I'm curious as to how many people intentionally bring a black guy into the bedroom vs. how many bring a guy into the bedroom. I looked over craigslist and found it interesting that several couples specified a black male, but there were other interesting requirements, too.