Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 04:43 AM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 04:52 AM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 05:54 AM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 07:27 AM
she is allegic to lubes. i think. you should go to see a doctor. i know that KY makes a sensitive lube called Intrigue. It is expensive but very very silky and smooth.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 08:49 AM
What kind of lube did you try? If you used a water based lube, maybe you could try a silicone; if you used silicone, try water. There are also oil based lubes, but I think most tend to shy away from those. Even with silicone, you need to do your research. It can only be used with certain condoms and can't be used at all with most toys. Water-based is much more versatile if you can use it.
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 09:41 AM
Posted Wed Jul 07, 2010 09:51 AM
Things to think about ...whatever you put in the back door is going right into your (her) bloodstream so be watchful of ingredients. Similarly, her vagina can be very sensitive . . watch incredients also. Maybe she is allergic to silicone, or glycerin. You need to experiment with little bits. Word of caution ...she has a very delicate PH balance inside her girl parts. If you use something that upsets that balance . . yeast infections and all kinds of nasty iritation can result. So go slowly and test things.
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 04:26 AM
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 07:25 AM
There are all sorts of diffrent lubrications avaliable... personally I would try going with a Durex "play" pure lube, which is a very light water based lube with very few ingredience.
Also if it is a directive allergy I recommend you test before having sex with the lube. Get a credit card and scrape the edge flat over her inner forearm/inside of the elbow joint, to weaken the skin (Don't cut or tear the skin, just scarify it... you can do the same with a luffa or scarifying sponge.) . Then smear a little of the lube on the scratch and wait 10-20 minutes... it shouldn't be very painful.
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 05:47 PM
I agree with what tenyn says, remember that the mucous membranes absorb anything you put there so be very careful with what you use.
I'm a voter for saliva like Kal says and isnt it fun putting it there!
Posted Thu Jul 08, 2010 06:02 PM
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 02:34 AM
you really dont want to use vaseline, especially if youre using condoms.
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 08:14 AM
True that!! I love that i don't have to use lube, it would be really slippery then. I do need it for anal though.
True that too!
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 01:29 PM
I have no idea how/if baby oil reacts with condoms, so be careful about that possibility for it to react badly. But it's a suggestion I didn't see in this thread yet.
This post has been edited by Miss_C.: Sat Jul 10, 2010 01:29 PM
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 02:44 PM
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 03:03 PM
Some of the active ingredients are the Hemp seed oil, Grapefruit Seed Extract etc.
O'My Natural Lubricant is Paraben-free, ideal for women with skin or sugar sensitivities, no artificial flavoring, latex–compatible & water-based.
Ingredients: Glacier Water, Vegetable Glycerin, Sorbitol, Hemp Seed Oil, Guarana Extract, Yohimbe Extract, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Sodium Benzoate, Tetrasodium EDTA, Grapefruit Seed Extract, Damiana Extract.
Hope it helps