Sex during "that time" love it or leave it?
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:27 AM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:35 AM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:35 AM
As for the mess that has put you off - I'd say it's nothing compared to what would usually be there during sex. With her cum and later on mine, the...blood:cum ratio? () is negligible. I guess that depends partly on the woman, though.
This post has been edited by Allender1: Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:35 AM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:38 AM
I''ve never had sex while menstruating, but I always thought it would be pleasurable. Yeah, it would be messy, but that's what towels are for. After all, if we considered the mess, we probably wouldn't squirt either.
Yes, I know, different, but I hate hearing that a man WON'T have sex because of his woman's cycle. It's almost like hearing that I am dirty or something...at least that is how it has been presented to me, or how I felt about what was said to me, or not said.
The shower/tub would be a great place for this kind of activity...
No longer an issue for me, but in my experience (4 sisters) it has been the woman who decided sex during menstruation was not going to happen. I wonder how much it happens the other way...where the guy is not interested? In my case, it was the guy.
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 11:55 AM
I'd say quite a lot. Most guys I know hate the idea. Then again I'm completely different from them in every way. Personally the only thing about it I'd be even slightly bothered with would be lots of blood during oral. That's never happened - it wouldn't gross me out much but I'd prefer not. One thing I have found is my girl tends to smell just slightly more wonderful at that time of the month
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:04 PM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:16 PM
I wouldn't take every opinion that's written on this forum and apply it to real life. It seems many people on this forum are a lot more sexual than most. Chances are, if you're signed up and posting here, you're a lot more sexually open that most of the population.
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:28 PM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:53 PM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:56 PM
My wife and I used to; never used to bother me or her. Well, except for that time she forgot she was wearing a tampon and, umm....
In any case, I've even earned my red beard of courage.
Now we don't, anymore; something she doesn't feel like doing now. I don't miss it per se; cleanup afterward was always tedious. But yeah, it's one of those used-to-don't-now things, too.
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 01:20 PM
My current girlfriend loves sex and fortunately natural physiological processes such as menstruation do not kill her love for sex, so I do not have to wait in horror for any "black days". On the contrary, she says that sometimes having sex helps her to relieve the pain and discomfort caused by her period.
So no, I really do not see it as something "gross"...
If some guys feel uncomfortable with traces of blood on their penises, you can always use a condom.
As for the "mess".....well, I would say that it really depends on your priorities - as for me, the discomfort caused by cleaning up the "mess" is much smaller than the discomfort caused by sexual abstinence...
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 01:24 PM
yes, this happened to us on one occasion too.... funny experience, I must admit. Fortunately, it did not cause any injuries or any further complications....
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 02:38 PM
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 02:40 PM
Thank God for Kegels!
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 03:16 PM
It is what it is, sure it can be messy but with some preperation you can minimize that issue. My wife is the one who has the hang up about it, she was never really comfortable doing it while cycling, however sinse her hormones have kicked in she is more accepting of it and tends to be more open to it. It is not something that we do during the whole cycle, we wait til the tale end of it before she will even consider doing it. If it gets too messy then she will call it quits, she is more grossed out by it than I am.
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 03:20 PM
its so hard not to have sex when its that time of month, both rubbing up against each other getting turned on. I have to give in
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 03:25 PM
I can think of several dozen if you like. Compiled, numbered, and collated for your convenience.
I still owe you that story, by the way! Hasn't slipped my mind, I've just been busy lately.
Posted Mon Jul 19, 2010 04:37 PM
I've never found that there's been a mess as my natural vaginal lubricant overtakes any bleeding and I tend to have tons of juice, sometimes its a little blood streaked but thats it...
during your period you only release an egg cup full of blood over the few days, well on a normal period, I appreciate some girls are heavier than that. so its not like you're gonna have a bloodbath.
My nipples darken get extremely sensitive, my whole pubic region is engorged and sensitive, i love it.