Cant get an orgasm!
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Posted Thu Jun 29, 2006 12:10 PM
don't worry about how long it takes. I'm 32 years old and had my first orgasm only a few months ago, so I know how difficult it can be. I never used to touch myself until I met my current lover, the way he turned me on I had no choice but to find some way to get relief.
But now, I masturbate very often, every day nearly, and I come every time.
If it hurts when he plays with your clit, you are maybe not aroused enough or he rubs it too hard.
Every woman is different... For me, when I touch myself (a great way of getting to know your body and what you like) I start by going very slow, stroking it faster and harder the hornier I get.
As someone said, don't let it bother you too much, just relax and enjoy exploring your body and your boyfriend's.
I find that I come faster/more easily when tensing the muscles in my ass and thighs. *shrugs*
Posted Thu Jun 29, 2006 02:14 PM
Well, if he is too rough or you are too dry it certainly can hurt. Make sure you are plenty wet and maybe you need less direct stimulation. My wife could take it pretty direct, but not too hard. As she neared climax she would pull my hand up higher so I was really only touching just above the hood.