Do I have a problem?
Posted Wed Jun 28, 2006 03:45 PM
This is my first time for being on here and I'm not really comfortable talking about sex and all, but anyways I have a few questions.
I am a guy and I was making out w/ this girl and out of nowhere I have a woody so I am guess I was being turned on and stuff so I'm like "ok whatever" that's normal (I hope) so she starts kissing my stomach and starts going down on me and when she gets down to my penis I was a little wet...
I'm asking if that is normal...because it happens to me all the time...and I'm really embarrassed by this...I haven't cummed it's just wet...so my question is has a guy gotten wet before cumming?...
another question I have is the same girl is giving me head and she was like "I'm going to make you cum" and I all sudden I was just laying there getting head and I started to shrink w/out cumming and it happened to me a couple times while getting head from this girl and I am extremely embarrassed by this...so I'm guessing I have a problem. So my question is have other guys shrink while receiving head?...
Another question is that I was having sex w/ the girl and I couldn't cum (I didn't jerk off before or anything) it's just when I doing it she was enjoying herself and stuff but I was scared for like not cumming or something...so my question is have guys gone through sex w/ out cumming?...
like again I'm am extremely embarrassed by asking these questions and feel like I shouldn't be doing this, but I haven't talk to anyone about this and embarrassed overall and should I go to a doctor or something?...
Posted Wed Jun 28, 2006 04:12 PM
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Posted Wed Jun 28, 2006 04:42 PM
>>I haven't cummed it's just wet...so my question is has a guy gotten wet before cumming?...
Yes, this is normal. It's called pre-cum. When a man starts to get an errection, some amount of semen can be released during the errection phase. This is why using condoms or other forms of birthcontrol can be very important as there can be sperm and semen emitted prior to ejaculation.
>>I all sudden I was just laying there getting head and I started to shrink w/out cumming
This is normal as well. Maintaining an errection is all mental. If you're stressed, having performance anxiety or otherwise nervous, you can lose your errection regardless of stimulation. Various medications, diet and personal health can all play in a man's ability to maintain an errection as well.
>>I was having sex w/ the girl and I couldn't cum
This ties back to the prior question. Sex, arousal and orgasm are linked to your mental and psychological state. If you're nervous, uneasy, stressed or having performance anxiety... you can easily find it difficult to orgasm and ejaculate.
In order for sex to "go right" you have to be in the proper mindset and mood, proper health and with the right partner. While I'll say statistically men have it much easier than women in this respect, men can still have difficulties and sexual dysfunction due to health, diet, mood, anxiety, medications or nervousness.
The key is to relax, enjoy yourself and lighten up. Make sure you're taking good care of yourself, proper diet and see a doctor if you're concerned about any medications you may be taking. Also, try to find partners that you are at ease with and feel comfortable with.
Posted Wed Jun 28, 2006 04:55 PM
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