Help and advice please
Posted Fri Aug 06, 2010 10:23 AM
I am very new to all this and wondered is this the place to start.
I have been in a relationship for sometime but lets say it is not intermate. I need more (or even some lol) and I have heard about fuck buddies and cyber sex, but would not know where to start.
Any advice would be great
thanks in advance
Posted Fri Aug 06, 2010 10:39 AM
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Posted Sat Aug 07, 2010 12:51 AM
When you get into serious relationships, you will find that after compatibility , TRUST is one of the most important factors.
Respect is too. Valuable to know this and remember it. Building trust and respect takes time. Without it you have got nothing. You just don't fall in love...you have to work at it.
Beware of really pretty girls....they are sometimes spoiled and very demanding.
Sex is serious stuff...it comes with responsibility for what might go wrong.
Sex without love is rather cold....and leaves you insecure..perhaps nervous and frustrated. Having sex with someone should be meaningful and just not for sex itself.
Cyber...that is a fantasy in your own mind...and DISTANCE seems to make it acceptable for both parties, but in reality I don't get it and never will. Cyber is a neat way to hide serious imperfections in a character. If you are in a serious relationship, knock cyber off your list of things to do...you never want to get caught.
Porn is just about the same..it plays on your fantasy and gives you a false idea about sex. When watching it, leave it at the computer...don't carry it out in the real world. Not all women you meet will do those things you see time after time and you should not expect them to. Edopho
This post has been edited by edopho: Sat Aug 07, 2010 12:55 AM
Posted Sat Aug 07, 2010 01:42 AM