Kinda odd question... Practice makes perfect?
Posted Wed Aug 11, 2010 06:21 PM
Alright so I SUCK at being on top. I use to think people were just genetically programed to know how to hump (kinda like a dog is?) but I don't know I am just not doing things right. My boyfriend says practice makes perfect but he is kinda bad at communicating during sex so I think I am hurting him half the time (when trying to maneuver I guess I accidentally bend his penis the wrong way sometimes) and then we both end up frustrated and end up switching position before I really get any good practice in.
I was wondering if there's another way to practice? Maybe try a pillow? How did you get good at being on top/how did your girlfriend get good at being on top?
Posted Wed Aug 11, 2010 06:50 PM
Posted Wed Aug 11, 2010 07:57 PM
I agree with CBD, a weiner bend is painful, I have a photo of a bend and it doesnt look nice lol.
its something that will come to you in time. Girls prefer the rocking of the girl on top, guys want to be ridden hard and fast sometimes, if they want that, then you position yourself and he'll have to accept that he needs to raise his hips to meet you, you can't do it all yourself.
I watched a porno one time and the girl was doing the usual porno bounce ride, then we looked a little closer and his penis wasnt anywhere near her lol, we could see the tip of it lying flat against his belly, so it was clearly put on for the camera, no way could she have done that without breaking him or him falling out all the time.
Posted Wed Aug 11, 2010 10:39 PM
I do enjoy sitting up and riding him kinda like a horse
I also like to lean forward and you kinda use the weight of your ass to move up and down. work your hips girl
Posted Thu Aug 12, 2010 06:41 AM
i could never do it but ive gotten the hang of it and i love it now! its amazing.
its all in the hip movement. just go slow at first until you get the rhythm right then you can fasten your pace.
also some muscle in your thighs will help lol!
Posted Thu Aug 12, 2010 07:42 AM
All grand answers here...sliding in the saddle, so to speak, is excellent...and the rhythm can mount as you go. Bending forward will give him something to "kiss" bending backward will give him a "show". Any way is fun fun fun...and well worth the perfection that experience brings. Have fun!
Cowgirl at heart!
Posted Tue Aug 17, 2010 07:57 PM
Posted Tue Aug 31, 2010 04:43 PM
Posted Fri Oct 22, 2010 07:36 AM
I like to be on all fours on top of a guy, gets me off so well...with that you do a back and forth rocking motion....seems to work everytime for me