Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 11:24 AM
Now Rg is my second boyfriend, we have been together over 9 1/2 years.
My first boyfriend was my first real pash and he was more dominant so I followed along.. He liked to flick tongues alot. Kissing him was nice enough.
RG has amazing lips which I adore. Obviously the kisses are amazing when there is love involved. With RG and I kiss many ways but my fave is soft relaxed tongue kissing.
My FB was different. He had thin lips. He seemed to make the most of them however
I enjoyed open mouth caresses as he fucked me. Our lips kind of grazing.
A couple of the guys I kissed had small mouths! it was strange for me!
One guy literally shoved his tongue down my throat and his Mrs did the same to RG.
It really wasn't my thing
So guys n gals. What is your fave kissing style? What has done it for you and what are the horror stories?!
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 12:09 PM
I hate saliva face soakers and washing machine motion where by he just swirls his tongue around and around, that does nothing for me.
Kissing is so intimate, I utterly adore it, and a good kisser will always kiss me right into bed lol
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 12:33 PM
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 12:47 PM
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 01:09 PM
Nibbling, licking, gentle sucking, butterfly kisses.
Sometimes teeth get involved - whether during nibbling or while tongues share mouths.
Then the "take me to heaven and never bring me home" kind of passionate kisses, every part of which is filled with emotion - need, hunger, love, primal - engulfing one in body, mind, spirit -- oozing sensuality and sexuality and, well, you can go from there.
Tongue: that is a love-hate thing for me. My husband will suck on tongue so f*cking hard it hurts. That is going to change when he gets his mojo back....and Yes, I'll be gentle about it. Why did I never speak up, no idea.... I like that playful flicking, just having his tongue or him just having mine, and I like sharing tongues.
Vanessa, I love when kissing doesn't lead to sex - it is so damn erotic! If it does, great, but if not, you know the next time you have sex will be that much more arousing....as the build-up from the kissing session lingers with each of us.
I hate saliva face soakers and washing machine motion where by he just swirls his tongue around and around, that does nothing for me. ITA, Duchess. It really isn't all about the tongue for me - the tongue is just one of many tools.
Grazing - perfect word Kalli.
There was an episode on Oprah (or the like) about how to kiss - some Dr. was on. He had props that were tongues and they were the size of, oh perhaps 1 yard, and then the shape of a tongue - big and fluffy. He had 2, each on its own pole. He had different men and women using them together, showing people how to tongue-play. Damn if I couldn't stay and watch - and even record it for hubby!!
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 01:15 PM
Anyway, one of them spun me around and started to kiss me, now normally he'd have got a slapped mouth for that but the kiss was sensational, I kissed him for the rest of the concert, never heard a word of the concert at all, didnt know his name and barely remember what he looked like, but 16 years later, still remember how hot those kisses were!
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 02:06 PM
- love it!!!
Now that I think of it, there are "angry" kisses too. You are angry at one another and then BOOM you're kissing madly (pun intended). Potentially still angry, but kinda' like angry sex - ravaging.
Duchess - I need to go further back in time and relive some of those moments... I'm sure hoping there were some like yours! I'll think on it tonight, perhaps while in the tub!!
This post has been edited by PrincessofHearts: Fri Aug 13, 2010 02:06 PM
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 04:59 PM
I love long slow soft kisses, ones that could just go on forever and ever. The one's that show how you're feeling about the other person.
*sigh* i miss kissing
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 06:46 PM
It was 2:30 am when I wrote the post so I didn't go into many specifics but I will add I like the half kisses on the corner of my mouth and I love sucking on the end of his tongue
Posted Fri Aug 13, 2010 08:45 PM
I've been told that i'm a good kisser, and this happened to be the person who i found to be the best kisser i've ever experienced! I'm getting wet just thinking about it...
My horror story is the guy i lost my virginity to. When he tongue kissed me, he'd SUCK. Practically suck my tongue down his throat, it was gross! Needless to say that whole thing didn't end well at all.
My last FB has awesome lips, i find them captivating. He kisses in spurts kind of, it's sort of strange. He kisses for a few seconds, tongues lolling around, and then he'll move to my ear or neck, then back up. I've never had a deep, lingering, long tongue kiss from him! They're still very nice, have just never had somebody kiss in increments.
Mmmm, kisses. Been far too long since i've had some.
Posted Sat Aug 14, 2010 05:51 AM
Posted Sat Aug 14, 2010 08:25 AM
I honestly feel as though you can tell how sexual a person is by the way they kiss, passionate, rough, teaseing...etc etc. I find that kissing dictates the pace as to which a person wants to fuck, so when I get those signals I know how to please the lady I was/am kissing by matching the pace while we have sex.
I love kissing.
Posted Sat Aug 14, 2010 09:16 AM
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Posted Sat Aug 14, 2010 05:04 PM
I like all kinds, but what I don't like is a hard kisser, stiff lips, but I like nice soft lips
Posted Sat Aug 14, 2010 09:43 PM
I guess we all had to find our ways thru the maze of how to kiss well.... because really, you are taught by the first person who kisses you, right? And then the next and the next until you decide what is the all time BEST and how to be the all time BEST. I think I'm pretty good at it - but when you enjoy something so much, you ARE good at it (hehe, like giving head!!)
Posted Sun Aug 15, 2010 12:40 PM
Posted Sun Aug 15, 2010 03:39 PM
Similar sentences are often used to express that a person likes kissing EXTRAORDINARILY. HOWEVER, it may NOT necessarily mean that the person loves kissing more than people who also want to continue with sex!!! It may simply reflect the fact that the person actually loves sex less than people who would geneŕally prefer to have sex as well!!! If someone says “I miss the days of old when all you did was spend hours kissing and groping“ (don’t take it personally, please, I use the sentence just as an example, I’m not implying that what I’m going to say can be automatically applied to you), I can’t help myself but it gives me the impression of “How good it was when I wasn’t expected to have sex when kissing! How wonderful the days without sex and with a kissing were! ‘I miss the days of old when all you did was spend hours kissing and groping‘.“
I wouldn’t see the general preference and desire for continuing with sex as something “degrading“ the value of kissing itself. IMO there is no way a person can “degrade“ kissing by wanting sex!!! Unfortunately, people would always love to continue with sex are often seen as those who can’t understand the true value of kissing. HUGE MISTAKE!!!
This post has been edited by Naamah: Sun Aug 15, 2010 03:40 PM