Is there anything wrong with this conversation?
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 04:28 AM
"lol? is she retarded - i eat any sausage - she must be trying to make me look an idiot lol" Boyfriend - August 18 at 4:37pm
"ive heard you'll eat anyones sausage to ;P"
I've been unsure every now and then of my boyfriends sexuality. Is this type of conversation normal? I'm pretty sure that his friend is atleast bisexual and they look really close together on pictures.
I don't know if I'm just over reacting or making a mountain out of a mole hill but it's genuinely upset me and I want to be proven wrong.
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 04:35 AM
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 04:38 AM
It was from facebook. I don't really know whether to confront him or not "/
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 04:51 AM
Unfortunately not. In his inbox. I went on his facebook to see if this lass was still stalking him.
I don't read his messages. He said he doesn't mind me going on it cos he's got nothing to hide. But then I saw that message n it immediately put doubts in my mind.
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 05:05 AM
It's really up to you at this point, but be prepared for questions yourself as to why you read his things.
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 05:06 AM
In all honesty it really just sounds like jeering. I know plenty of guys who do this type of shit right on their walls for everyone to see and they are all straight. For some reason they find it funny
This post has been edited by Jade: Tue Aug 24, 2010 05:08 AM
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 05:28 AM
friends can say anything to each other and its fine.
Just leave it, if other things come up which can put doubt in your mind then yes but this one little line shouldnt.
Only way i could suggest you bringing it up is to have a friendly banter between yourselves and accidently say something about him and his mate. but jokingly.
other than that, i wouldnt be too worried.
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 07:09 AM
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 07:47 AM
You don't know the full context of the conversation and you shouldn't be reading his private messages, If you were my girlfriend, i'd finish with you for doing that.
I'd not admit to reading it if I were you, and i'd not be going back to read more either.
If you have something to ask him, then just ask him.
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 11:57 AM
Question. What led you to feel the need to do this? Did he tell you that he felt like someone was stalking him? Or were you feeling a bit insecure? To be honest, what you're doing is a huge mistake. Whether he gave you his password or not, you shouldn't be trying to look for things that'll cause you both to break up. You might as well break up with him right now, cause either 1: You'll find something that you'll find bad, but isn't bad at all and he'll get pissed knowing that you snooped through his stuff and won't trust you anymore. Or 2: He'll find out you snooped through his stuff and won't trust you anymore. Either way, it's not good for you. My ex was like that. I'd pretend to be asleep and he'd pick up my phone right next to me and look through all my text messages. He also created a screen name on a different forum I'm on just so he could see what I was writing about. He even pretended to be someone else by contacting me. It was really bad. You don't want to look like you're the stalker, because you're pretty much stalking his every move on facebook. Again, ditch the snooping and actually have trust in him. If there is no trust, there is no relationship.
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 09:51 PM
Posted Tue Aug 24, 2010 11:57 PM
P.S. Just because you have a green light doesn't mean that you shouldn't look both ways before entering the intersection, you know?
Posted Fri Aug 27, 2010 02:48 PM