pls help -body image
Posted Sat Aug 12, 2006 01:22 PM
I gave up on diets and gym, they just don't work. I feel worthless; my bf will leave me surelly there r so many thin ladies out there he won't stay with a cow like me. Recently I started pilates cause it helps with depression somehow; if I don't get back in shape I'll stay locked up in my room all day -ok that's already the case almost. Shit I hate my body and I don't have the guts to cut the damn vains or poison it or sth.
I don't eat sweets and bread, I have one meal per day and many sugarless coffees.
I'm so tired of carrying all my life this ugly carcasse around. Anyone pls have a possible solution to suggest?
edit: I'm 66 inches tall by the way. I don't like cardio that much, I do it rarely but mostly I lift weights. The problem isn't gym cause I've stamina and no meat's hanging from my waist. Luckily I've no 'old-people skin'; mine's too firm to be pinched for example. My ass is big and I've shoulders like a man's!
My bf lost few pounds; now he's about 202. Men r so lucky, don't have to worry if their ass looks huge. And overweight men r simply more attractive -feeling his weight on me after sex is such a turn on. Anyway most men like thin girls; mine too. When he met me years ago I was 132 pounds. The last thing I need now is to get dumped bcause of my huge ugly ass.
Posted Sat Aug 12, 2006 01:32 PM
and 167 lbs isn't that heavy whoever is feeding you those lies needs to be beat like a red headed stepchild. Your a lil overweight but your definetly not fat hun and your height is also an important factor in weight not to mention your body fat % do to muscle tone etc. My advice to you is to get with your doctor and have him tailor a diet for you and stick with it and join a gym and ask for a personal trainer to help u start a workout program or just work on that cardio and be patient it all takes time your not gonna lose 10lbs in a week you may not even lose that in a month but if u stick with it you'll see results in the long term!
Posted Sat Aug 12, 2006 02:42 PM
I want you to read a book--Dr. Ro's Ten Secrets to Livin' Healthy. And I aint just saying that. I know about her. She's a friend of a friend of a friend. She has the right ideas.
And who are these mother fuckers who say you got fat when you say hello? Fuck them. They got the problem, not you. Don't use their language on yourself. Worthless, cow, hate, ugly, carcass--holy shit girl, using words like that trains your mind to believe it.
And here's something. One of my girlfriends is big. I love how big and soft she is. I could just get lost in her. Not five minutes ago she e-mailed me a picture of herself so sexy it has me aching. And it aint even like she's showing her pussy or anything, just her full curves.
Posted Sat Aug 12, 2006 02:44 PM
Posted Sat Aug 12, 2006 04:25 PM
Actually mine translates to 76 kilos.
I know there r girls heavier than me. I'm just worse than I ever was and people find it worth mentioning obviously to hurt me. And yeah it hurts cause it's true. If they were lying I'd ignore them but i can see for myself and I really look like shit. Vomiting i know is dangerous but it seems the only choice at the moment. I'm not even considering these promising pills on the market..I'm fat, not stupid.
Posted Sat Aug 12, 2006 05:41 PM
No, it's not true at all. And people that respond to you like that, well, there is a simple word for guys like those, well, to put it simply they are ASSHOLES!!!!! Plain and simple and guys like that, you really shouldn't be giving your attention too.