Sex with someone you hate?
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 11:07 AM
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My answer is still the same. There'd be a good reason for the two of us not to be intimate any longer.
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 04:17 PM
This post has been edited by Rich_Rocks: Wed Aug 25, 2010 04:19 PM
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 04:23 PM
I couldn't get it up and going if I didn't like you, there really isn't a way around that.
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 06:13 PM
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Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 08:12 PM
I can't quite understand the "sex as punishment" mentality. Turning something fun into a punishment??? Like, "I hate you so much, I'm going to give you this 70% chocolate bar and then make some hot cocoa with it, hardcore!!!"
Unless... you are talking about intentionally hurting the person, then well jail is just an awful place to end up.
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 08:29 PM
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 08:35 PM
a fine example from this os a lady at job whom i know she a had a crush on me (from discreet little lines, from hours long conversation while driving on the job, from her looking at me in job parties, from her rubbing semi-intentionnally her boobs against me, for her showing me cleavage gratuitously). In the beginning i tought that maybe i'd do her if the circumstances are right, but then we've worked together only a few months... now that 1.5 year passed by, things are different... SO much shit has happenned to me because of her changing her mind, being too picky, wanting to do more than the client asked, scrapping the job at the last minute to do something else, waiting until last minute to give her approbation or making changes... I just have plenty of reasons to hate her professionnaly, and i know enough about her personnally to despise her. But she still seems like she'd bang me if i'd snap fingers at a job party; others even noticed it and told me "why don't you just bang the brains out of her, she asks for it!"
i then think about how she acts with me professionnally and i think that it would turn against me, or that she would expect more of me all the time... i told my colleagues (joking of course) that if i'd do something with her, it'd be brutal and humiliating for her, but the fact is i'm not into that so i'd just pass i guess.
SO back on topic, no. You probably asked in the angle of would you get brutal during sex; to that i answer: i might get slowly brutal if i'm with someone i love and trust and that she WANTS me to go brutal... but i don't rape or beat up people.
Posted Wed Aug 25, 2010 09:14 PM
I would never discount the power of pure physical arousal during emotional duress.