It took 3 painful months of living together before she moved out and took our two young daughters.
I see them every other weekend like all other shmoe dads that couldn't hold together a marriage.
I've been living alone for the last 4 months. It's a situation that I'm not comfortable with but I have it forced upon me so I have to adapt.
There was a dispute about the division of property because my sister had died and left me 100G six months before the ex asked me for this, and she was trying to take half of it.
I disagreed to that!
We had a court conference yesterday, kind of an informal hearing that a judge makes a statement as to what should be happening after listening to both sides - but it's unbinding in the end, neither of us has to agree.
We did however, and things got worked out after 2 hours of back and forth.
Now I feel finally free.
I haven't been with anybody thoughout that whole process and I am looking forward to finding somebody special to share a portion of my life with again.
It feels like it's been a long time since I have been with somebody physically and I want that again also.
Someone who thinks about me and can't wait to see me, as much as I look forward to seeing them, somebody that I can travel with and laugh with.
I've been out of this game for so long that I don't know how to do it......
The rest of my life starts now.
This post has been edited by Holeshot: Tue Aug 31, 2010 10:27 AM