Posted Sun Sep 03, 2006 06:12 PM
Posted Sun Sep 03, 2006 06:58 PM
Take a look at your scedules. stress from work and other things (in our case:school) seems to take the "pep out of our step".
To me though I think the best thing to do would be to sit down and just talk with her, find out how she feels on the issue.
Good Luck blank123!
Posted Sun Sep 03, 2006 10:40 PM
The is self defeating talk. You don't know until you try.
But here's something more important. You don't have to end up fucking every time you make out or mess around. A little time on the couch getting romantic should just be nice, it doesn't have to be a kind of token foreplay before the pressure is on to have sex. She might resist your moves on the couch because she figures you're going to want to go further, and she might want to do some of it but not go that far.
Here's a clue that there is more to this story. I think she sounds tired. In the four years yall have been married her job might have grown, or maybe it's wearing her down and she needs a break or a change. Or a lot of other things could be making her feel tired. I think the key might be there.
Talk to her about this kind of thing when you can sit together and not when you're just about to have sex.
Posted Mon Sep 04, 2006 01:48 AM
Posted Mon Sep 04, 2006 10:34 AM
Posted Mon Sep 04, 2006 10:45 AM