Posted Fri Sep 08, 2006 06:20 PM
I waited till i was married to have sex, which happened about 7 months ago. So now, having sex on a regular basis, i can see some things improving but some things, no progress whatsoever. A main problem i have, is that I can't seem to last whatsoever if i start getting excited. I mean, I never ejaculate prematurely. I can always tell when its coming and control it, or slow down, stop, whatever it takes. But it really sucks, because the main thing that turns me on, is when my wife starts getting into it. Which means, whenever she gets to the point where she starts to enjoy it, i get too excited and I have to slow down or stop!
On the other hand, I can keep going forever and ever if she's not into it. I stay hard and I can move back and forth as long as I want and not cum. This problem is making it to where neither of us can really enjoy the sex, especially her.
In porn, the guys usually seem to be REALLY into the sex. Same thing when i talk to friends, they say they get really into it, and they're really turned on etc.. but I dont know if these guys are faking it or what, because when I'M really into it, i cum. If I'm not all that into it, thats not a problem at all. So if anybody can tell me something I can do to help resolve this, whether its exercise, pills, something mental.. whatever, I'd appreciate the help!
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Posted Fri Sep 08, 2006 06:50 PM
Get your wife off other ways besides intercourse for a while--oral and whatever. Experience her getting excited and cuming til it isn't so new for you. Then when you go back to intercourse you'll be more used to her response.
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