will he know if im a virgin?
Posted Thu Sep 21, 2006 07:03 AM
i know this is a bit immature but i really dont know what to do...
im having a bit of a problem...im in university and have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and am completely in love with him. The problem is im a virgin and am not supposed to have pre-marital sex although i obviously really want to at this stage. My question is, since i already know my hymen is broken and thats not the issue, will the guy i will eventually get married to (prolly in 2 yrs time when i move back home) really know if im a virgin or not? can he ever really tell?
Posted Thu Sep 21, 2006 07:06 AM
If he would know depends on how experienced he is, and how you act... I'm sure it's possible to act as though you're having sex for the first time, if necessary....
PS: you might want to change your profile, right now it's says you're a man
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PS: maybe the boyfriend knows about it too?
Posted Thu Sep 21, 2006 02:00 PM
So are you just with this dude to pass time? You say ur in love with him yeah? If I loved somebody I'd want to be with them forever, could this ever be an option?
I think you should give it a little more time to think this through....you might feel to guilty after with the culture/religion etc....
Posted Thu Sep 21, 2006 03:59 PM
Posted Thu Sep 21, 2006 06:47 PM
Anyway, just tell him the truth. If you masturbate, just tell him that. Why make up a bunch of crap that might come out later down the road. The truth will set you free... and you'll feel like a huge weight has been lifted from your shoulders.
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 02:05 AM
Black Lightning said:
No, she wants to sleep with her boyfriend, whom she loves, but is worried that her future husband will know she is not a virgin. These are two different guys we're talking about!
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 06:22 PM