willing to wait
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 01:38 AM
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 09:14 AM
I don't understand what people talk about with the "temptation for sex". Of course I want to have sex. But for Christ's sake, I have a damn good time masturbating! Plus, from my experience, if you don't know someone very well and you just dive into sex, it can be terribly awkward--the longer you postpone sex, and spend time doing things ranging from just cuddling or making out to mutual masturbation or other sexual activities...the more you know your partner.
I just don't get it when people talk about needing sex...men or women. I've actually totally dropped women because they wanted sex too fast and couldn't take no for an answer...creeps the hell out of me.
I guess people want different things out of a relationship? That's one reason I think it's important to know the other person's values BEFORE you start a relationship...
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 09:26 AM
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 12:49 PM
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 12:52 PM
I am however picky about who I even consider having relations with. I have a very low count in relation to how many actual oppurtunities I've had.
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 01:13 PM
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 03:40 PM
sometimes its better alone then to have bad company.
Posted Wed Oct 04, 2006 03:48 PM
Posted Thu Oct 05, 2006 11:12 PM
i can totally get that. on the other hand...I can almost always tell whether or not I'm going to be compatible with someone in bed before it gets to that point. in fact, i think all it really takes is 5 minutes on the dance floor and i can pretty much tell. i've never really been wrong. of course i haven't been with a huge number of people either but i haven't ever been wrong in that way...
i think more of it is chemistry and communication and less of it is actual skill anyway...