Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 02:45 PM
Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 02:51 PM
Good Luck and Have a Great Anniversary!
Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 03:02 PM
Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 03:19 PM
Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 03:32 PM
just relax man, hell my girl is just on the pill and i pull out, that is enough to have me relaxin'
Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 03:35 PM
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Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 09:02 PM
Posted Thu Oct 28, 2010 10:59 PM
Just take your time and get into it when you feel up to it.
Posted Fri Oct 29, 2010 12:01 AM
Posted Wed Nov 03, 2010 01:56 PM
bobby, you should be way more than fine. If you're using FOUR forms of birth control, it would take a miracle for her to get pregnant, and it would be a very difficult situation for modern science to explain.
When taking the Pill properly, I'm able to have unprotected sex with my fiancee without getting pregnant. We've been together for four years - no issues yet with the Pill.
You're probably fine if she's getting the shot when she should be getting it. If you also want to use condoms, then that's great. But birth control is very effective when used properly, so the condoms are most likely unnecessary if she's on another form of birth control that she's taking properly. In this case, it's pretty hard NOT to do it properly because she has to go to her doctor to get the shot. If you're also using spermicide, your little swimmers don't have a chance anyway. And on top of it all, you're pulling out, too. You're not even close to cumming inside her, so you'll be just fine.
I have the same advice as everybody else, bobby. Just relax and have fun! Sex is supposed to be fun!!! In fact, since she's on the shot, maybe you could even try sex without the condom sometime? Once you do, you'll wonder why you've been using condoms all this time when she has been protected from pregnancy.
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 09:22 PM
Relax and try not to be a douche? If you are using a condom and she's on the pill, you are very safe
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 09:42 PM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 01:34 PM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 04:08 PM
From a medical perspective (I'm not a doctor, but I am a second year medical student), I think you could benefit from making an appointment with a doctor and discussing the actual pregnancy risks of various forms of birth control so that you can get a real answer as to just how low the risk of pregnancy is.
Then, in addition, I would suggest a meeting with a counselor, possibly for you and your girlfriend together to discuss coping mechanisms for dealing with the anxiety associated with pregnancy risk so that you two can both feel comfortable and confident with your decision to have sex.
If you're going to have sex, it's worth it to do it in a healthy, responsible, and comfortable way. There is no reason your OCD should hold you back from a wonderful sex life with your girlfriend if that's what both of you want. You're just going to have to be more proactive about it than some other people.
Good luck, you deserve to be able to enjoy sex responsibly
Posted Thu Nov 11, 2010 03:52 PM
In my opion, with all of the methods of protection that you're using, there should be no fear about her getting pregnant, but then again with your OCD, I guess I could see why you may be a little scared... of course like everyone else has said sex is great and is suppose to be fun for you and your girlfriend. And I don't know her, but I'd say she is just like any other girl and might become insecure and start to wonder why you aren't having sex with her because that is just how us ladies think. The lack of sex may also make her start to feel like there might be something wrong with her or that she just doesn't seem to turn you on like she used to or you have just lost intrest in her. So just like everyone else, I say go for it, have fun having sex with her and when you do, you'll wonder why you haven't been having sex with her all along and been worrying about it so much because I assure you it's impossible for her to get pregnant with all the different methods you've been using.
Posted Thu Nov 11, 2010 11:14 PM