I need help....
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 10:33 PM
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 10:36 PM
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 10:37 PM
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 10:42 PM
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 10:52 PM
Tell him this just like you have it here. If he doesn't set it aside after that, then he is not the man for you. A man you are going to marry is going to have to feel moved when you tell him something with words that strong.
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 11:03 PM
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 11:55 PM
Posted Sun Oct 22, 2006 01:12 AM
exactly. i couldnt imagine the same happening with my ex gf.
Posted Sun Oct 22, 2006 01:24 AM
I am at a stand still - the very thought of sharing someone i love with another woman is destroying me inside. I can't do it and I won't
Solution #1 - pick an extremly unattractive woman. Tell him that she gets you really hot, lol.
Serious solution now - you shouldn't have to share him with another woman. Me and my girl both are very experimental and willing to try new things, and we've discussed the threesome but we both know that it would kill me to see another guy with her, as we both know it would kill her to see me with another girl. If your boyfriend really loves you and is really marriage material, he will let go on this childhood fantasy and realize that has somethin so much better than that. Tell him flat out exactly how you feel - and exactly what you think about it. If he still insists on a threesome, maybe you should reconsider if he is really someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Because if he still wants, or even tries to convince you to do a threesome, he obviously doesn't care about you...
Posted Sun Oct 22, 2006 02:22 PM
Posted Sun Oct 22, 2006 02:28 PM
I was going to post, but someone wise already said exactly the right thing.
Posted Sun Oct 22, 2006 05:51 PM
that's the best advice that anyone on here can give, you need to stand up and let him know exactly how you feel
Posted Tue Oct 24, 2006 01:22 PM
Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 10:51 AM
Personally, I could never share someone I love. I just think it's tacky, but hey. That's just me. Even if it were casual sex, I think a third wheel is just a distraction. Anyway, you should tell him exactly how you feel. If he still insists, then this isn't the guy for you. You shouldn't have to be pressured into doing something that you think is morally wrong.
Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 05:45 PM
Posted Thu Oct 26, 2006 09:35 AM
I was going to post, but someone wise already said exactly the right thing... again.
And Cute-N-Dappy you ARE cute!
Posted Thu Oct 26, 2006 03:13 PM
Posted Thu Oct 26, 2006 04:18 PM