g/f is aching alot
Posted Sat Nov 06, 2010 03:32 AM
me and the g/f have a good sex life, but just lately shes hurting alot after sex, complains that her pelvis is aching and tops of her legs.
Always make her have a orgams before i even insert my cock inside her, then we have to take it really slow to start with. At first she ok with it, but then it starts to hurt, when im going hard (about to cum) she trying to push herself away from me to relive the pressure. We use plenty of lube and shes always very wet before i go in.
Any ideas because she's getting quite upset now.
We have just started using condoms, (we are both clean) but im lasting well over 1hr before cumming now with a condom on. Could this be a problem? shes just not used to it yet?
We try plenty of postions.
Shes been to the doc's no infections or strains, so we are at a loss.
Posted Sat Nov 06, 2010 09:58 AM
Posted Sat Nov 06, 2010 04:46 PM
If, it's just now starting then I'd say there is something else going on and she needs to see her GYN for an exam...
Posted Sun Nov 07, 2010 07:03 PM
Posted Mon Nov 08, 2010 01:12 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 03:38 AM
I'm willing to bet that you are lasting too long for her, unless she started having this problem before you started using condoms? Or perhaps she's allergic to the latex?
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 05:56 AM
name of that part in English. If your cock is pushing against this part, it really
hurts. It should pass under it, never on top of it.
The pain can be quite severe and hurt like you say (pelvis, legs), like "irradiating"
pain. I've experienced it, already.
So, when it starts to hurt, stop and change the position.
If she's OK with it, you could insert your finger into her vagina to feel the thing
I'm talking about, so that you know how hers is shaped/positioned. Because it
differs in some women.
A question: did she complain that you weren't lasting long enough? Perhaps she
was just fine with the time you were lasting before. Careful not to put her off sex
with this. There are different condoms and perhaps you should try one.
Talk to her about the issue. Perhaps a 30 min fuck's enough for her and you're
imposing something she doesn't really want.