I have this fantastic new boyfriend! We have known each other for months and we have recently started sleeping together. Three times so far to be exact.
Here's my problem in a nutshell.. He has trouble staying hard. He gets hard on and off throughout the session, but can only penetrate me for a few minutes, if that. Oral sex does NOTHING for him, if he IS hard then he will go limp if my mouth goes near his penis. From my observation it seems like he REALLY needs to concentrate and it looks like hes really trying to stay erect. Like mentally. I dont get it? I have never dealt with this before. He seems to completely dislike oral and cannot stay hard. He has NOT orgasmed yet with me, nor has he even looked as tho he was close to doing so.
This hurts my feelings. Im a giver as well and I LOVE to make my man happy!!
Im very cool about it, and he is clearly embarrassed. He does not seem open to discussing it. HELP! WHAT TO DO??
* Note that he is almost twenty yrs older than me. Seemingly very confident while texting me, talkin about his LARGE member and skills... He's in his mid 50's and I think he is sooo sooo sexy. He also has some type of testicular deformity or something, which again, I FIND KINDA SEXY cuz im into him and one is HUGE. I can tell he's VERY insecure about that.. and yes I've told him that I dont mind and even like it's unusuallness!
Is that a word? Ha ha ha..
Help me people! Im falling for this guy and we have this problem
Thank you in advance!
This post has been edited by peachy9: Mon Nov 08, 2010 11:36 AM