Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 08:35 PM
Im a virgin (just so you understand later on in the story)
I had a friend who's gf i was totally into but abviously because we were friends it never went anywhere. They had a kid in 01. over the time of their relationship we got close (me and her) as friends the three of us were always together so it was bound to happen that we would become friends. Well long story short they got engaged six weeks before he was supposed to get married he was caught cheating on her and they broke off the wedding. i stopped talking to him and her and i became the best of friends and we got really alot closer then i ever thought we would. talking on the computer about what we would do to each other if we ever hooked up. This went on for a good six months then i finally approached her about it and she was against the idea at first then i kept pushing for it. Shes literally the girl of my dreams she pretty, smart, funny, overall a great person.
Well moving on we had the perfect opportunity and we planned it (probably the problem is that we planned it). So it was perfect we went out to eat and then back to my house. we got cozy on the couch and started playing around with each other i started feeling her up and all that stuff . i went down on her and i choked i couldnt do anything i just froze down there i got up and walked into the bathroom (lol i didnt know what else to do and i was so nervous/scared) so i was in there for a little while then came out and we didnt really talk about what happened. I still have feeling for her and i know she still has feelings for me but i dont wanna go down that road again and choke again.
So i need advice on what to do
thank you guys for helping me out here
Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 08:44 PM
Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 11:01 PM
You might also want to start with your hands instead of going down on her. Get familiar with her down there and what she responds to.
And another thing is tell her you're nervous. It aint a big confession, it's just sharing how you feel. Ask her what she likes and what she would like you to do. Get her involved instead of just performing. You'll feel a lot more relaxed.
Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 11:19 PM
i agree with the others...taking it slowly is very important...you should be relaxed! :-) and once you get comfy, believe me, you will have no trouble being relaxed...
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