I called off the wedding (thank god) due to us not getting along on so many levels and we are still having major issues.
Now im 23 years old so i really have a good sex drive and like it daily at LEAST and she has ZERO sex drive. She is on avaine birth control i think it's called and she said her doctor mentioned it not having anything to do with a loss of sex drive. So really, i have no clue what to do but i feel TERRIBLE because i get pissed when we don't have sex everyday because it's something we both enjoy while it's happening just i ALWAYS have to bring it up to get it going. It's a huge stress reliever for me and she claims it is for her too when we do have sex.
The thing is, I always care about getting her off (eating her out and playing with her using toys) before myself since she doesn't orgasm during sex so i can't be all that bad of a guy. Sometimes shes all for it, but like last night she said she wasn't interested at all in her getting off (??)
Our first 2 years was great and the last 3 have slacked off so much it's tearing us apart. She told me yesterday how she can't believe our whole relationship is based around sex but i really don't think it's a bad thing since we're in our early 20's.
I wanted to get married to this girl but we can't even balance a regular relationship right now due to her never being sexual and me feeling terrible all the time for asking about it. I feel so selfish.
Any clues guys?
This post has been edited by topoftheworld13: Mon Nov 15, 2010 01:25 AM