Our sex life is fairly routine. She'll occasionally give me a blowjob, but it seems she does it out of her wifely duties, not because she likes it. She never gets me to the point of cumming without switching to conventional sex or finishing me off with a handjob. She likes when I go down on her. She's been receptive to anal at times, but it's not a regular thing. Toys have been a part of our play from time to time. Obviously, we're not as adventurous as some.
Within the last few months, she's made a couple of off hand comments about other women...such as Gabrielle Anwar in "Burn Notice" and Katy Perry...saying that they're hot and that she'd totally do them. I used to joke with her about having a 3some with her and her best friend (who's also married) but that relationship is a bit strained since last year.
The other week I made a joke in passing about having a threesome, and she asked with who. As I was joking, I really had no one in mind and didn't even expect to be asked that.
Should I start "pushing" the issue of her with another woman in hopes that she may be warming up to the idea on her own? I usually wipe my face before kissing her after going down on her. I think next time I won't, and see how she reacts. I'm afraid that I'll "weird her out" if I suddenly start discussing fantasies, etc. with her since it's something we've never really done.
This post has been edited by FireGuy315: Sun Nov 28, 2010 06:35 PM