Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 02:12 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 03:13 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 03:19 PM
If u do feel more relaxed but no girls come along yet ask a girl out or go and speak to a girl ask them if they've seen *this* movie or they caught *that* show last nite or something (EDIT from here) if they didnt catch the show or whatever u wont look stupid just say somthing like 'oh u missed it! dam it was really good really funny/interesting/etc had that actor in it the one from *wherever*' that way u dont look stupid and she might have seen the other show and the convo may flow on from there.
I hope that works.
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 03:52 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 04:11 PM
PS if i dont find u attractive it doesnt mean that no girls will ever find u attractive, everyone like different things.
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 05:03 PM
You don't have to be a jaw-dropper to get women. Just have something in common to help break the ice and lay down a common ground and your personality will take over from there. If nothing else, you'll meet new friends and have other things to do to occupy your time.
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 05:50 PM
I am not sure why that is a problem. Friends know you and know who to fix you up with. And their girlfriends might have friends they can hook you up with too.
Hey what are friends for?
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 06:28 PM
Hey what are friends for?
I'm sure you're right, my thinking was that the people I meet are already closer to my other friends and won't develop that same level of closeness with me. Anyways, here are some pics...
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 06:41 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 06:56 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 07:23 PM
(Like your Scotland shirt btw! And how come u have a Scotland shirt anyways??)
If u want 2 have those girls hanging off u, I suggest goin to the gym, toning up a bit, is good for the confidence and general buff-ness. Ur a honey but I'd say u need to pose a little bit more (that thought of 'hey I'm sexy', think it, believe it and it makes a big difference)
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 07:24 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 07:40 PM
Ok firstly.. you are definately not unattractive. In this picture if I had to put it in order of shagability... it would go in the order you are lined up in... and that includes Woody!!!
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 08:06 PM
-I was pretty toned and then I gained weight during the summer so I'm in the process of getting back in shape.
-My sister got me that Scotland shirt, she went overseas for Model UN
-That white guy in a couple of the pics that some of u guys ragged on a little is my roomate(yes the same guy who hooked up with four girls last night)who along with my buddy in the T-Wolves jersey(who also happens to be a starting WR for the football team)has hooked up with the most girls by far out of all my friends.
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 08:35 PM
Posted Fri Nov 10, 2006 09:05 PM
"Do something different, and something different will happen."
Applied to this situation it means asking a girl out on a date and then trying your best to have fun (not to impress her or give her a good time, but have fun yourself!). Do it once a week or once a month at first, then ramp up. It is important to face your fears head on in this area, you get comfortable with doing it by, well, doing it. Do it!
( btw, I had exactly the same thought about that first picture as meg did although I'm straight, guys still get a sense of what women like. funny to read it later in the thread. )
Posted Sat Nov 11, 2006 11:51 PM
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:19 AM
i know this might sound like a hard task for you (maybe not), but what you should try to do first is get a much higher self-esteem. doing so will make shyness a thing of the past, allowing yourself to have the ability to talk to girls left and right! you'll have to think of your own ways to do this though. when it comes to talking with girls, all you have to keep in mind is: just be yourself, and start out by talking to them like you would with anyone else. just make friends with some of 'em. then if you think you like one or some of them, ask them out on a date or something. it's really not as hard as it looks at first, trust me.