why does my bf talk during sex
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I make mine your words.
OP, ask him. You can even ask during sex, since he likes to talk...
I don't recall ever having such a behavior from a partner. I'm curious.
It may be he needs diversion not to climax too quickly, like somebody said.
Posted Fri Dec 03, 2010 12:54 AM
Posted Fri Dec 03, 2010 08:35 PM
I agree with Vanessa. Turn the tables and do the exact same thing when you're having sex with him. Talk about the types of things he talks about - your day, the cute pair of shoes you bought, what you want to do on Saturday night as a date, what you're having for dinner, your friends, your work, etc. Just any random stuff you want to talk about. Hopefully, he'll realize how annoying it is before very long, and he'll understand how it feels when your partner talks too much in bed.
Plus, it's a way to show him how it feels without hurting his feelings or becoming confrontational.
Save the daily small talk about your day until after sex or talk about it over dinner instead - not in bed in the middle of sex.