Females and oral sex
Posted Thu Dec 02, 2010 03:27 AM
Posted Thu Dec 02, 2010 03:41 AM
Why are brides always smiling at the altar?
'Cuz they never have to give their man another blow job!
Posted Thu Dec 02, 2010 11:55 AM
Haha nice one I haven't heard that one!
Posted Thu Dec 02, 2010 12:50 PM
do you think there is something in particular that may put them off? I love oral, both giving and receiving so can't imagine not wanting to do it.
Posted Thu Dec 02, 2010 03:54 PM
don't like it. They do it at the beginning of a relationship, but, when
the man is "granted", they stop. The same with sex. Lots of
sex before, then, after marriage, frequency fades away.
Even women who like sex, they may not like it enough to do it
above other things, like doing the dishes, for instance. They may
not like it enough to support and keep craving the boring sex
her husband is offering. A man will most easily be happy with
oral me-oral her-doggy every night, but a woman will bore soon.
Of course, on a sex forum, most women will like giving bjs. There is a
reason we're here. But the female public of a sex forum shouldn't be
considered a representative sample of the general population.
One can blame the man for poor performance, lack of knowledge of
the female anatomy. But there is more to the problem. One can't deny
the power of hormones.
The other side of the problem is that lots of men aren't
interested at all in how the woman feels. And there are much more
women giving oral sex than receiving it, for instance.
So say the most recent statistics.
Of course, the male here all love giving, etc. But, again, the males
of a sex forum aren't a credible sample of the general population.
There are some clues that corroborate these results. For instance,
in poor countries, women are invariably perceived as "hotter".
After marriage, these very hot women will also find other interests.
Another clue is the effect of most cultures on the female psyche.
I can't think of a single place in the world where a woman can
actually say she likes sex and not be seen as a slut.
I live in a country where homosexuals can marry legally, where
abortion is legal, euthanasia, etc. But I know I'd better hide
my sexual drive. I wonder elsewhere in the world!
Why should any one believe she can be a saint in public and the
dreamed "slut" at home?
Sexually driven women aren't the first choice of some men. The same
men who might be found complaining later his wife is off sex.
It took me years and a lot of effort to form a community of people
who feel free enough to enjoy sex to the full.
Most people I know well enough to peek into their sexual lives
and who aren't part of this community is unhappy with their
sexual lives. Male and females. The main female grievances:
boredom in the bedroom, tiredness. The main male
grievances: lack of interest and initiative of wives.
From all these women (the ones who aren't part of our
community of sex buddies), there isn't a single one who likes
to give oral sex. In the community, we can't keep our mouths
from each other genitals.
The conclusion? None. My group of friends and acquaintances
aren't an appropriate sample to describe society, either.
Why is our community working? I'd say the key word is variety.
We fuck together, in couples, in groups, we have MMF, FFM, etc.
We do bondage, S&M. We fuck in the morning, late at night, in the
afternoon. We've got a few dungeons in the group, poles for
dancing, people who like costumes, people who don't. And we
all got something to talk about.
I'm just sharing my experience.
I think there must be lots of people who're unhappy with
something in their sexual lives, then they parachute here and see
all these women who love cock, all these pussy-loving-willing-suckers,
and it may make them feel even more frustrated, because they're
not partaking in the party.
Posted Fri Dec 03, 2010 08:14 AM
Personally, I love giving oral sex, but that doesn't mean I do it for every man I go out with. But those guys who do get it from me, don't forget it
Posted Sat Dec 04, 2010 05:45 AM
I have to say tthough that sometimes I enjoy giving oral to some men, this I can't explain, but I think it's got to see with the way they taste and smell. This doesn't happen very often though.
Posted Sat Dec 04, 2010 06:36 PM
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