Did you ever get the feeling that someone was having sex with you simply b/c they felt sorry for you?
Posted Sun Dec 12, 2010 06:59 PM
Yes I have, and I knew it at the time. And it made me feel pretty good actually. Over the course of my 35 year marriage, my wife has had sex with me a number of times when she didn't really feel like it because she knew I was horny...and I've done the same for her too. Made me feel good not only because of the sex, but because of the love and caring she showed me.
Posted Sun Dec 12, 2010 07:14 PM
i have been married 3 times now and i tend to agree with what you are saying here. Sometimes i do not want sex but she does and vice versa so we do. It is nice to know that even tho i do not want to i can still give her pleasure. And she can do the same for me.
Posted Sun Dec 12, 2010 08:30 PM
Your situation with your wife is not what I think he means. She obviously loves you so its not really pity sex.
I have never felt that way but who knows if that has ever been the case. I will say that I have been in that position a few times and really these were just ONS situations where once you get started it's kind of hard to back out without looking like a complete ass. I actually did this with an ex and he told me afterward that it made him feel really bad. I didn't mean for him too but he kept begging me and I felt sorry for him.
Posted Mon Dec 13, 2010 01:52 AM