Touching self to relax, not turn on
Posted Sun Dec 12, 2010 10:55 PM
Maybe this topic will be filled with people saying, "Yeah right," or "Whatever," but I guess I'm reaching out here because it seems like she just doesn't believe me. I'm hoping that somewhere someone else can vouch for this. I'm not a sex fiend or hound, and hell, this is my first post on the forum.
I'd like to say I have a moderate sex life with interest on both sides. But I guess a few bad apples on her end have jaded her to believe that every guy who touches a certain area is out for sex or out to get their rocks off.
I'm not like that. It's tough to be typing this.
A little more insight into the situation: I like to relax and hold my genitals, and I've even gotten her to do it without me getting hard. She still doesn't believe me.
If there's any guy or girl out there who can agree with me on this, I'd very much appreciate it. I feel like my ideas are foreign and untrue, at least by gauging her reactions.
Posted Sun Dec 12, 2010 11:16 PM
Posted Mon Dec 13, 2010 12:48 AM
I don't see why she doubts you really or why it would be that big of a deal.
Posted Tue Dec 14, 2010 04:32 PM
I can say that there are many times when I just fondle my nipples to focus and relax. I can't relax if my mind is racing in a million places at once.
And, I can also say that there numerous times when I masturbate simply to make myself relax.
So all in all, we are all different and that's what makes the world go round.
Posted Tue Dec 14, 2010 04:45 PM
Oh yeah. I do this a hundred times a day. I'm doing it right now, between lines.
It often does turn me on, though. Certain times of the month, etc.