Is it weird that I want to see my bf make love to another woman?
Posted Wed Dec 22, 2010 02:18 AM
Posted Wed Dec 22, 2010 02:28 AM
Posted Wed Dec 22, 2010 03:42 AM
Strange maybe my misses would chop my cock off if made love to another women.
Posted Wed Dec 22, 2010 05:31 AM
Mine would too
This post has been edited by roystrange: Wed Dec 22, 2010 05:31 AM
Posted Wed Dec 22, 2010 07:54 AM
Posted Wed Dec 22, 2010 03:38 PM
Posted Fri Dec 24, 2010 02:02 AM
It finally did happen. It took some drinks to loosen up the vibe to follow through with what we had talked about for a little while. My girl was all for it if I was there to watch.
I have to say, I thought it was amazing. It fulfilled exactly what I wanted.
However, that night when we were alone together...... she got pretty emotional. She felt guilty like she had cheated on me. It really affected her negatively. She also thought that I was not that into her and only crazy encounters like that would turn me on, which was the furthest thing from the truth. No amount of explanations and caring towards her made her think different.
It kind of scarred our relationship sexually in how adventurous we would get and put a stop to telling each other some of the wild things we liked or fantasized about.
It did not turn out to be the most positive experience.
I would do it again......I thought it was incredibly hot..... but it would take a better understanding and I'd have to be certain that reaction wouldn't happen for anyone involved, thats for sure.
Posted Fri Dec 24, 2010 03:02 AM
I am now in a serious ongoing situation with 2 beautiful women. Both of them agree to what is going on and are currently into me very heavily(not sure why) but they are and both have fulfilled fantasies with our relationship. It has now become a three way thought process I think that is the most difficult issue at hand right now. Although we are all into it they both like to watch me with the other. I just love the fact that I am satisfying two women I love the challenge. In the past few weeks we have had several sexual episodes and each one had more sexual arousal than the other.
Posted Fri Dec 24, 2010 06:22 AM
Posted Fri Dec 24, 2010 10:52 AM
more healthy reasons:
-your own kink
-not that committed to each other
-part of being bi, you are also attracted to women and want to see your bf ball her in ways you can't (ie: using your bf to fuck another girl)
less healthy reasons:
-not emotionally available to him
-self conscious that you can't fully please him
-allow him to have a girl for fear he would stray otherwise
-roundabout way to sabotage the relationship
This post has been edited by kevb: Fri Dec 24, 2010 10:54 AM
Posted Fri Dec 24, 2010 12:56 PM
Below is a quote from a TV show that kind of shows how it's a good idea in theory.
Dr. Mrs. The Monarch: Uhâ€¦ hey! Thatâ€™s not my idea.
The Monarch: I thought it would turn me on, but it was just double the embarrassment.