g/f think masturbation is dirty bit pervy how do i convince her its not and to try it
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 12:31 PM
but she has never masturbated and when bought up it sounds like a dirty thing to her and a bit pervy
i wish i could get her to open up a bit more i would love to masturbate in front of her
i would love her to try to masturbate not with me but on her own so she can feel what its like,then if she didn't like it fair enough
i use to masturbate infront of my ex and and she did it 4 or 5times infront of me,also we did it at the same time
i think it's lovely to share something so intimate that begins so privately
i would love to be that little closer to my g/f by doing this
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 01:49 PM
more suggestions thats not going to freak her out and that wont cost me money like Beautiful Agony
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 02:45 PM
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 03:06 PM
so at least we can get a bit closer to our sexual needs
books would be no good as she wouldn't read it (would you read someting you dont want to do)
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 03:42 PM
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 03:55 PM
That's one place to start. You can not necissarily drop hints, but leave things around that you know turn her on. A big step later on would be to get her a vibrator, if she doesn't already have one. If you could, try to work it in when you two are having sex, simply say that you want her to feel what it's like to have that on her clit and you working her pussy with your tounge. She might go for it, and if you leave it with her, she'd be inclined to use it or at maybe try it for herself. As for the "hints" you could maybe send her erotic letters, something that stimulates her when you're not around so that she might end up wanting to release all that sexual tension on her own.
That's about all I can come up with, good luck.
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 04:11 PM
my ex left her vibrator at mine and i did suggest to her why not have one of our own but that was a no go
i like playing with vibrators i have told her it can be used on both of us and its more fun when we can both tease each other with it
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 04:21 PM
And prove they are not dirty, but beautiful expressions of love making.
My guess you two donít use toys right? If not ask her about toys maybe get her interested in them to start.
Hopefully that will open up other things that you (or her) are interested in, but donít push ask nice, talk to her, if she says no ask her why she opposes such nice pleasure that you would like to bestow upon her & that you just want to please her the best way you know how.
If yes she would like to try toys get a small vibe, she will love it.
Try that, go with the flow remember donít push it; go s-l-o-w sexual education is hard to teach some people.
Posted Fri Dec 01, 2006 08:10 PM
Posted Sat Dec 02, 2006 04:34 AM
but thats a good idea you have
(Try fingering her and tell her thats kind of what it feels like)
when you have been with someone you get to know them and tell what they are like, and something like masturbating is a nooo wayyy for her but it could change being with me,just got to get her over the big first step...
Posted Sat Dec 02, 2006 11:34 PM
Posted Sun Dec 03, 2006 07:36 PM
Posted Sun Dec 03, 2006 11:17 PM
I think you're exactly right!