didn't know where to put this.
Posted Sun Jan 02, 2011 02:32 AM
Posted Sun Jan 02, 2011 03:55 AM
You have to decide if you believe she's sorry n cam earn your trust again and if thats what you want cos it will feel different,it is different cos she's betrayed you,,sorry if i sound harsh but tryin to make the point that trust goes when one of you cheats,its the basis of a relationship and will take time and effort to rebuild,,are you both willing to rebuild and if not then walk away now n save the pair of you a load of heartache.
As for your ex its fine to be friends or have bit of fun but its rarely a good idea to go from one relationship str8 into another.
its your decision but just be honest with yourself n you'll know what to do
Posted Sun Jan 02, 2011 04:08 AM
You should take some time to yourself to figure it out,she kind owes you that n if you cant decide then take some time out.
Your thinking of your ex partly cos it seems much simpler but also to get your own back a wee bit prob so friends ok,anything more just complicates matters,
Posted Sun Jan 02, 2011 10:04 AM
Posted Mon Jan 03, 2011 02:26 AM
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 02:57 AM
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 05:56 PM
Unbelievable. She wants you to feel sorry for her for cheating on you. She said she "slipped up" and it was an "honest mistake". What a joke. An honest mistake is "I thought your favorite color was blue" or "I must have misread the label because I thought it was the one you like" not "you weren't around so I fucked another guy". If there is an honest mistake there it is probably "I thought I could get away with treating you like a doormat."
Sounds to me like you made the right decision.
Posted Mon Jan 24, 2011 06:45 AM
right you have feelings for the girl, but if it does not feel right to you when you have sex, then ask yourself this.... do we have a relationship that will go on and on and?
i think i know the answer, do you?