I'm kind of worried about it. I've screwed up many chances over the last two years or so, and at 20 you'd think it was something I'd have been done with it years ago, but nope I'm still trying to figure things out. I'm not one of those ugly and fat people wondering why they're lonely, no offense. But many people have told me I'm attractive, even desirable (not my words) but it just hasn't happened... I know I shouldn't feel pressured, but I honestly want a sexual relationship with someone and all that comes with it. People keep telling me "oh you'll find someone" but these people are happy and secure in their relationships and they don't realise what it's like for someone in my position. I'd even say they take for granted what they've got and how easy it was for them to get it.
I know I can't just ask how do I get a girlfriend/lose my v-plates... but at what age did you lose yours? How did it happen, etc? and do you have any advice for someone who is trying to grow up, so to speak?
This post has been edited by Quake: Fri Jan 14, 2011 05:45 AM