Going on top?
Posted Wed Jan 19, 2011 05:45 PM
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Posted Thu Jan 20, 2011 09:32 AM
Sex with your lover is about learning each other's bodies. There will always be things you can improve on and learn better and more exciting ways to give each other pleasure.
The most important thing is not to learn to be good at it, but to learn to be comfortable *not* being good at it or feeling awkward. Once you learn to feel comfortable doing something that feels a bit off, then you can focus on making it work better.
You will be infinitely better and improving your sex life if you feel safe getting a little awkward, making an a$$ of yourself and being able to laugh about it with affection, and not putting pressure on yourself to do everything perfectly all the time.
Nobody gets to be really good at sex without feeling awkward many, many times, and working through it and finding new ways to maximize pleasure.
Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:53 AM
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Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 09:23 PM
Oh I'd forgotten about the mans hands on the womans ass!!! The current FWB has extremely nice hands, they fit my ass perfectly!
Sorry, went off on a tangent there! My bad!
Very true, the guy will not complain if you need to practice and practice and practice!!! (Or he shouldn't anyway!)
Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 09:28 PM
Posted Sat Jan 22, 2011 01:44 AM
A woman with long legs will have an easier time kneeling above a man and controlling her strokes; a woman with shorter legs might prefer to squat above the man, with her feet just above his hips (if she's facing him) and resting her hands on his chest for balance.
If either or both of you has a prominent belly, the woman may be more comfortable facing his feet; from this position, either squatting or kneeling could work.
The man need to understand his positioning as well; a man who has his knees up can pump into her easily, but he restricts the woman's movement, and the depth his penis can reach inside her. Also, a woman with short legs will need the man's legs closed- knees together- or she will not be able to kneel over him.
This is one area that porn can help- you would never expect to be good at basketball if you'd never seen a game.
Woman on top, or cowgirl position (as in 'ride 'em, cowgirl!) is very popular in porn, and there are several porn actors who specialize in riding. I suggest getting a look at a few:
As I say, cowgirl is a common position, but these women I mention will get on top in almost every scene they do. You can also go to any search engine for porn and enter the word 'riding', and you'll find different styles of cowgirl.
PM me for other ideas...
This post has been edited by ScottyWright: Sat Jan 22, 2011 01:45 AM
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Posted Sat Mar 26, 2011 09:21 AM
Practice makes Perfect! Do it slowly and ENJOY it.. as easy as that...