To The Married Bisexual Men
Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 09:52 AM
Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 10:20 AM
Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 10:55 PM
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 02:37 AM
If I'm with her,I'm with her simple as I'd never cheat on her.I've always wanted to be with her since the first time we got involved but she'd always seem to get cold feet n back off when we'd been together a wee while n i'd say this is the last time you'd do this n i'd go off do my own thing for however long,9 months one time but we always got together again.This time its gone well for over a year and I'm not throwing the bi thing into the mix now.
Posted Thu Jan 27, 2011 11:19 AM
Lol. Good for you, sir. I wish I had your courage.
Posted Fri Feb 04, 2011 04:06 PM
I don't know if my prior situation (I'm divorced now...and not because of being bi either lol) really fits into the kind of scenario that you've presented us with. My ex knows that I am bi, and she was always very supportive and encouraging of it. She opened up our marriage so that I didn't have to deprive myself of anything...and lol, at times it actually felt as if she was throwing me at men. She became good friends with a couple of my ex bf's.
At the same token, I was also out to all of my friends because of the way that we had always related with each other honestly and authentically. My best friends (a married couple) are ultra religious and had difficulty accepting that I wasn't only having meaningful sexual relationships with men, but that my ex wife was encouraging of them too. It eventually created problems between us because of the way that they tried to impose their values and norms onto us, and it led to me eventually confronting them.
It was very simple. They were made aware that they were entitled to their beliefs and values, and I respected them...but I was deserving of the same treatment; that it was best for us to agree to disagree. We also agreed that my ex and I had never attempted to interfere in their marriage and tell them what to do, and we expected the same in return. Boundaries were set, and we were able to move forward and continue to be best friends from there.
Posted Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:49 AM
With one guy it was very gradual, first he let me stroke him to a cum. At a later session he got comfortable enough to let me blow him but he didn't return the favor until a later foursome. He was really getting into it by the time we did anal.
The other guy must have been very eager, it didn't take much coaxing for us to get into a sixty nine, later that night we did some anal on each other while our wives watched.
I currently have 1 bi friend whose wife doesn't know, I can tell that while he loves being bi it is stressful for him as he has to hide it. I think if at all possible it's better to be open.
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 04:50 PM
Too bad. It would be kinda nice if she was turned on by seeing me another guy and wanted to bring that in. I wonder what she would think when she found out that I swallow, because she doesn't.
Posted Tue Dec 13, 2011 01:34 AM
Posted Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:30 AM
Don't think I'd share my desires with many of my friends/family, though.