Paying for sex
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:05 PM
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:15 PM
Good luck in your search
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:18 PM
Vegas, if you want to be legal about it.
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:23 PM
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:25 PM
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:58 PM
Actually, it is very Illegal within the city limits, one has to travel outside the city lines in order for it to be legal. Nevada does offer legal prostituion through the use of brothels, but there are no brothels located in the city of Las Vegas.
I'll agree that there are quite alot of prostitutes in Vegas and they are extremely easy to find, but they most certainly are doing so illegally.
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 08:59 PM
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 09:04 PM
Didn't craigslist get busted though? I know they got rid of the adult section and they'd be stupid to let stuff get out of hand in the casual encounters section since the authorities are already on them.
Likewise those ads in the back of the "local" news&reviews are full of "medical marijuana" ads (california) and thinly veiled prostitution ad. My friend went on a couple of encounters that way, it was hit and miss but he was able to find what he was looking for.
To the OP: Most major cities have escort services/websites which have the disclaimer that you're paying just to meet the person and "whatever" you do after that is between the two people.
Nevada probably has the most transparent set-up; however the legal brothels still pale in comparison to the illegal prostitution industry there...
Posted Wed Jan 26, 2011 11:41 PM
Posted Thu Jan 27, 2011 01:30 AM
Posted Thu Jan 27, 2011 05:50 AM
I tried a few years ago. It was total bull. Full of Cam girls.
Posted Thu Jan 27, 2011 05:54 AM
But where ever you live there will be women advertised in your local paper. That's probably an idea.
Posted Thu Jan 27, 2011 07:09 AM
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Posted Fri Jan 28, 2011 01:42 AM
Heh, I guess. I dont have any really "close" male friends, but I imagine that the few guys that I do know might be of some help in locating a place. I kind of lost all of my close friends after they hey, got married. I live in Louisiana by the way. Near Baton Rouge.
Posted Fri Jan 28, 2011 09:00 AM
Posted Fri Jan 28, 2011 12:25 PM
I was a member of AFF years ago, and of the five women I met, two were fun (one of which was very very fun), and the others were just not who I wanted, which is pretty much the same odds as picking someone at a local bar.
AFF is a paid membership, and after you buy in, who you meet and what transpires from that point on has nothing to do with the site.
As for the fuck buddy idea, my suggestion about that is to be very clear from the beginning what you're looking for. There are women who look for such an arrangement, but the overwhelming majority in the US want the whole date-and-woo package. If you were to meet someone at a bar or a party, ask her if she'd like to join you for dinner or lunch, so that you can talk to her on neutral ground. As you talk with her over a meal, you should get a sense of whether she'd be into it (and whether you're into her). If you get the impression she may be open to it, make it plain:
"I find you very attractive, and (not 'but', 'and') what I'm looking for at this stage of my life is a woman to enjoy sex with- direct, honest, uncomplicated sex. 'Friendly sex partners' might be a way to describe it, which might sound more comfortable than 'fuck buddy', but that is what I want. It's possible that we could evolve into 'friends with benefits', but I want to be clear about my objective. I'm not looking for three months for dinners and movies and parties with your friends, and still no sex; there is a good chance that I would lose interest or patience long before that.
What are your thoughts about the idea?"
This is not a word-for-word statement, but you get the idea. If you approach it like you want to start dating her, when you drop the bomb about being mainly interested in sex- not her favorite organic market, or joining her for an all-day Angelina Jolie movie marathon- she's liable to be upset, does not serve your purpose.
Whatever you say, keep it short, and then let her talk. This is not something you will have to sell; she will either be interested or not. It is my belief that a person never needs to beg or convince someone to have sex. Most everyone enjoys the activity, so it will not be a lack of interest in sex, it will be a lack of interest in sex with me. If that's the case, I'd never bring up the subject with the woman again.
As for the original question- buying sex- I see nothing wrong with paying for what you want, without emotional entanglements.
The massage therapists in town are a good place to start. Do not be put off by ads that detail their therapeutic services; many in the business have given special treatment (a 'happy ending') when they feel safe with a customer. At the very least, they would probably point you in the right direction.
Good luck- with either AFF or finding a fuck buddy (I'd never use that term for someone in my life, personally- certainly not to her), or a massage session.
Posted Fri Jan 28, 2011 12:55 PM
Dude, I'm sure there are some in Baton Rouge. I worked there for a year and they are pretty laid back like Texas. In fact there was a huge newstory about a madam there getting busted for a ring. So as the LSU guys and they will point you in the right direction. LOL