Older and wiser?
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 05:50 AM
Does any of you guys and girls have a fantasy that is similar?
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 06:02 AM
If it was the other way round i would live with that
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 07:41 AM
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Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 08:55 AM
Not that I look for them, but it seems younger men are more open to be with women my age than some men my age who are looking for younger women...
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 11:12 AM
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Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 05:35 PM
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 05:40 PM
Not trying to put any motives in why you have the fantasy, but imo it stems from men, as we age, want to feel that we're still sexually attractive to women, and still competitive with the younger guys. We sure as hell don't want to feel like "that old guy" that women giggle at. We don't want to feel that our masculinity is diminished, and what better way than to snatch up the coveted 18 year old?
You may still got it, but did you really want it?
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 05:45 PM
This post has been edited by tenyn: Thu Feb 03, 2011 05:46 PM
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 05:54 PM
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 06:17 PM
did you not sleep with any 18yr olds when you were 18?
its a funny thought to want to be with someone just for their age, i guess its a male thing, I don't really know any women with a longing to shag a younger guy or older guy, women tend to want the man rather than the age on his driving licence *assuming he's old enough to possess one*
if there's nothing stopping you from seeing an 18yr old, then go out and fill your boots!
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 06:39 PM
I find that really funny too Duchess... I have a profile on a date site and I have a lot of middle aged men hit it because of the picture... Some even send messages, but as soon as they realize how old I am, they assume my pictures were taken like 15 years ago. In essence, I suppose they're looking for younger women. I guess it must have to see with their sense of losing their virility. I, for one, stay away from men with age crises. Now, I don't go out looking for younger men, but I find many of them are quite open to idea of having an affair with an older woman. I don't really care if it's not a permanent arrangement, so age is not really a consideration for me, nor do I fantasize with men half my age.
This post has been edited by Olive: Thu Feb 03, 2011 06:42 PM
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Posted Fri Feb 04, 2011 03:51 AM
Women my regular partner is older than me . I put it down to having a unfulfilling marriage and the mundane life I led during it. I perhPs think the younger girls seem less inhibited
Posted Fri Feb 04, 2011 06:35 AM
My first time with a woman, she was older than me and very yummy. She was so hot and horny.
Posted Fri Feb 04, 2011 05:49 PM
i must admit though, i have a fantasy of being with an older guy, i have no idea why!
Posted Sat Feb 05, 2011 09:40 PM