If I'm your daughters age, would you still do me?
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 03:40 PM
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 04:25 PM
I wouldn't judge others for this though.
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 04:39 PM
Something happens to me that as soon as I get to know a woman as a friend my arousal dissappears and she becomes someone to support, chat with and get to know . . . I can admire her sensuality, her femininity or her attractiveness . . . I may hug her or kiss her or hold an arm or hand or embrace but sex ..... nope. Sigh.
So odds are I probably wouldn't do you or anyone else I know on here. But I do fantasize LOL.
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 05:23 PM
I got married when I was 20. My daughter just turned 21. I would prefer to go out with you and end up making love with you for years. It's not because of you are 23 though, age isn't a factor for me, I'm just searching for a real connection with someone.
BTW not only would my daughter approve, she might even recruit you LOL she does that often.
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 09:23 PM
If the age gap is not a problem, having a daughter the same age is unlikely to matter. It's like a woman having the same color hair, or the same name. Everyone is different, though. To have sex with one of my daughters' friends, whom I have met in my role as a parent? No. To meet a young woman in a bar, a park, at my work (not a workmate)? No problem.
I teach music as well as perform it, and I do not choose to play both sides of a relationship- I will be your music teacher or your lover, but not both. It's best that we both understand why we're meeting one another: "are we working on scatting, or are we working on each other?"...
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 04:08 AM
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 04:43 AM
It's funny, I would never have the guts to even look at one of my friend's boys as a man even though most of them are now adults. My son has introduced me to some of his friends and no, my only feelings are of the maternal type.
Now, I go out regularly with men younger than me, a lot younger... They look at me as a woman and I find them rather "playfull" and I can be a little "maternal" to them, but I don't have any objections whatsoever when it comes to having sex with them.
I think there's a reason for making the distinction when it comes to mating. I come from an extremely exogamous culture, and I can only feel sexually attracted to strangers. Once peoplde enter into my life as friends, coworkers, in-laws, whatever, they are automatically out of consideration for sexual matters.
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 03:09 PM
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 03:28 PM
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 05:42 PM
I'm not sure why that is as the bottom number stays at 21!
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 09:52 PM
Posted Mon Feb 14, 2011 03:07 AM
Posted Mon Feb 14, 2011 04:55 AM
Think of all 38-20, 58 - 40, 50 - 32 possibilities - there are many married couples with such age difference, which is no big deal.