I ask because I am curious about the emotional and mental state that they have - sort of the reason for (not) doing it.
I am living with a woman (several years already) that claims she never masturbated, not even as teenager, before she had sex, and since we live together she also never did. Which is OK, I mean, nobody says it is a required human activity, on the contrary - religions try to depict it as dirty and evil... I don't know why...
She doesn't think it is dirty, she is not religious, she just never had the need. She says that if she felt aroused she just let it pass. She says it seems/feels strange and awkward to her to touch herself and trying to get off.
Only as teenager she sometimes put the shower to her pussy to feel the warm water tickling it, or squeezed the pillow between her legs, but sort of like scratching an itch - she claims to never went till the end with those things and got off herself - she never fingered herself or used any toys. She just let it pass. She has no reason to feel ashamed or hide that from me and lie about it, she knows I am open minded and very sexual and erotic, and would not mind hearing that she masturbates, (heck, I'd even watch ) we trust each other. So lying is out of the question.
The thing is that all other girls I knew all masturbated quite a lot and some even loved it so much, that they included it in foreplay, etc.
So, are there any women that never had the need to masturbate or if anyone knows any women who never masturbate and what are the reasons or the state of mind that causes that lack of need?
This post has been edited by MrVortex: Fri Feb 18, 2011 08:24 AM