First meeting with someone from online
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 03:14 PM
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 03:36 PM
I hope that helps a little
i'll explain more here about how it was set up, precautions we took etc etc if you like
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 04:54 PM
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 05:47 PM
So as for the lover, well I didn't know a lot about him, he's not very active on here and used to log in to pm me. we talked on msn a bit sometimes and after a few months of chatting, decided to meet up to say hello. It wasn't for sex or romance, it was more of a friendly thing although we'd seen pics of each other etc and there was a minor attraction.
We arranged again to meet on a busy street, we had each others mobile numbers so text on the day about times etc, we went for a walk through the streets, then into a park and up a volcanoe, I joked that he could just push me off the side if he was a psycho
I didn't have any reservations about meeting either of them as i'd spoken to them for long enough, seen enough pics to know they were who they said they were and felt very comfortable.
If you met someone in a pub, you would probably arrange a date so in my mind, there is more to worry about meeting someone that way than someone from online if you've gotten to know a lot about them.
We decided before we met, where we'd meet, what our expectations were and that way he wasn't wanting romance or sex while I was wanting just a walk.
With Lover, when we were arranging to meet for sex, we booked a hotel as we knew we'd spend the night together, but said that if we chose not to have sex, then we'd just have massages etc or just have a drink, dinner and go home or stay together at the hotel.
There was no pressure so no worries although fancying him as much as i did, i'd have been very disappointed if we'd not had sex.
its def important to discuss your expectations first.
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 06:17 PM
Please take some simple precautions tho if meeting them alone for the first time...make it a public place and have someone know where you are and have a check in time with them, just to be safe
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 04:36 AM
Make sure you know who you are talking to is who you think you are talking to. Vid chats are almost a must or so many pictures that you know for sure that they are who they say they are. Make sure it's clear what you're gonna do, before it even happens, like Duchess and Azhei said, have a meeting place that’s public and generally well lit and make sure others know where you are and what time you should be back or what have you. But yeah....if you’re not sure, use the buddy system! Sound's cheezy, but hey, if you aren't sure, take someone with you or DONT go at all. And if sex does come up, make sure you each know what the other likes and may want, or if you're not interested then make it clear that nothing is gonna happen.
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 05:45 PM
one couple flew from canada to australia and australia to canada, they've been doing this for a year now.
If you have any doubts as to staying with that person, then its not worth going, remember, you don't know someone til you've lived with them, that goes for holidaying with them too.
I'd def recommend lots of contact first or it could end up in tears.
I have a friend that flew to meet a canadian guy in mexico, she flew from the UK, he flew from ontario. They got on well the first night, sex was amazing, by the end of day two he was creeping her out, by day 3, she was at hotel reception calling her ex husband to get her a flight home asap.
its not all hearts and flowers or fucking and sucking. Something anyone that meets online has to bare in mind.
Posted Wed Feb 23, 2011 01:32 AM
Posted Mon Mar 14, 2011 10:48 PM