i have a couple BJ questions for you men! maybe women too if you can help me
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 09:06 PM
2) what is the best way i can finish him off when giving him head? how do you guys like your girl to finish you off?
i'm just nervous that i won't be able to make him cum bc we usually just do it as foreplay, but i wanna give him the best one he's ever had
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 09:50 PM
Has he ever cum from a BJ? I would get too discouraged if he hasnt then doesnt with you. Some men just cant cum from head.
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 10:06 PM
One tip, however, that I'm sure any guy can agree: if you look like you "want it" then you're half way there.
Nothing better than seeing a woman who at that moment looks as if she'd want to be doing nothing other than worshipping my penis. Enthusiasm goes a long way.
Posted Wed Feb 23, 2011 03:47 PM
Posted Wed Feb 23, 2011 03:51 PM
Good advice here....
Also, look him in the eyes....switch it up from BJ to hand job from time to time while you are doing it too....
Posted Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:56 PM
Oh, and suck his balls at the beginning. But especially the first two.
Posted Wed Feb 23, 2011 11:07 PM
Surprising and enthusiastic. That's my suggestion.
Posted Thu Feb 24, 2011 07:21 AM
Posted Fri Feb 25, 2011 01:50 AM
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 05:12 AM
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 05:13 AM
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 08:53 AM
Second: If you have to ask here, you all may not be open enough sexually for him to feel comfortable enough to tell you exactly how he wants it done. He may think, that you will think he's "dirty".
Therefore, just talk to him and let him know what you are willing to do. Example: "You know, when I'm blowing you would you like for me to swallow or just stroke you with my hand?"
Then a few days later, surprise him and do what he wanted.
Worried he won't cum? If you're willing, ride him during intercourse and just when he's about to explode, jump off and take him into your mouth (surprise element again). Odds are, the mission will be accomplished.
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 09:47 AM
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 06:33 PM
jk! but i agree with the element of surprise, and the swallow . Nothing better than to cum inside mouth...
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 08:18 PM
Also, I agree with what everyone said.. Surprise, eye contact, ball sucking, no teeth, deep throat, swallow, reapeat! lol
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 08:00 PM
She has to actually enjoy it. Seriously, true enthusiasm can not be faked, and it can make up for a LOT of lack of skill and technique. I know it sounds oversimplified, but that's really it. Once you can actually enjoy sucking his cock, you'll find that everything else just falls into place.
See above. If you can enjoy it, everything else comes natural.
Then you're already half way there. There's nothing to be afraid of. If you're excited and looking forward to it, everything else will fall into place.
Mind over matter.
Posted Wed Mar 02, 2011 01:54 PM
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This post has been edited by Purple Tang: Wed Mar 02, 2011 02:14 PM
Posted Thu Mar 03, 2011 06:10 PM