Confused-str8,bi,gay Whats the reality?
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 02:04 PM
I have a question that was probably asked a million times but I'd like to share you my side of the story.
in a nutshell-
Im 21 and straight and attractive (no bragging). I love women very much and i highly respect them. I had a few girlfriends in the past but now im single and so far so good.
But i miss having the love and passion i used to get.
Even though im straight,im curious too, I did have a circle jerk with a guy before and i got head from another once. I just think head is head so i cant really say I'm gay.
As much as I like watching straight porn, gay porn is just as evenly matched......
I love pussy but I'd like to fuck a guy kinda. I never penetrated anal but if the person is clean id do it..but still gross...
If I fuck a guy does it make me gay?
so i could be bi but i dont want to think that. I want a girlfriend again no dought.
So what do you think my position is????
Any comments or advise???
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 02:44 PM
I'm not sure if you were hopin for a simple answer,in fact if you ask 5 people you'll get 5 different answers.
Thing is,what does it matter?.The only person who's concerned about it is you n as long as you're happy with what you're doing then it's irrelevant.
You say if you have anal sex that mite make you gay whereas other guys have said love being fucked up the arse but i'm not gay cos i won't kiss a guy ~ everyone draws the line in a different place.
You aint gay cos you watch some porn n some guy sucked your cock once prob just curious but if you think bout goin wi guys or start havin sex wi men then you're prob bi but who cares if you enjoy it
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 05:20 PM
I knew I would get something like that.
Yeah anal is nasty both male and female cuz i just think its a 1 way street. but if some situation happens then id prob do it.
I was just curious to get head from a guy. It doesnt bother me really.
As for the bi-curiousity, I still not convinced. i guess i need someone to tell me that im straight or bi. o yeah. i could NEVER bottom or suck a dick.
Also, If i am bi, i couldent tell, but only as a joke, but still wouldent hurt come to think of it because i could never receive or suck...
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 09:41 PM
There was a brief period where I thought I might be bi. I definitely have a sexual and romantic attraction to women, that never went away. But I did have a time period when I was curious about the other side of sexuality, what it would be like to give head to a guy, to receive head from a guy, to be penetrated. Hell, there's every possibility that I am bi, at least a little, but I am very comfortable with the sexual and romantic attraction I have with women. So I guess I would define myself as mostly straight with the occasional sexy thought about a nice dick. I've never gone down that road, and there are odds I never will. Not sure what that makes me, but I am comfortable with myself and my sexuality. I think that's the key. Be comfortable with yourself and the choices you make, both sexually and romantic, and you won't steer yourself wrong. Just don't let someone else decide for you or try to pigeon hole you into some convenient label. There are folks that are gay, folks that are straight, and a whole bunch of us, I bet, that fall somewhere in between.
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 11:40 PM
Posted Tue Mar 01, 2011 01:11 AM
Auto, i know what you mean. sexuality is so confusing.
This helps a bunch.