Unsure What To Do/Say Meeting Someone On A Night Out With The Lads
Posted Sun Mar 06, 2011 07:08 PM
it hasn't left my mind. Ok, myself and a few friends decided to go out last Tuesday night for a few beers. We ended up
going to a night club where I meet this wonderful girl. I was instantly drawn to her as she was in a corner dancing with a
few of her cousins. We were dancing and chatting for ages. Eventually my friends called me over and were asking me why
I haven't kissed her yet. I simply replied, I'm shy, she's shy...it will just come naturally. So as friends do, they brought me
over to her and insisted that we kiss. After a bit of back and forth banter, we finally hooked up I guess. The thing is, she
really surprised me and this feeling that I can't quite describe came over me. Its kinda like the feeling of butterfly's in your
stomach. She was a lovely person, great personality, pretty, had a good physique/style and she was just so easy to talk
to. The thing is, she told me she was moving to Australia for a year with some friends in a weeks time. Now she told me this
when we first got chatting, but right up until the end of the night I was getting very good vibes from her. We parted ways
as she was going back to her cousins, but we exchanged phone numbers and said we would add each other on facebook
and stay in contact.
If I'm being honest with myself, I really do like this girl, and I get it that most times you meet people out, your rarely stay in
contact but she was just different. I know that under the circumstances, it would be pointless and stupid of me to ask her
out as such, but my big question is, would it be a good move to tell her how I feel but would like to remain as friends? I just
feel I have left past experiences slide because I haven't taken the chance in expressing myself. I just think in this
instance, I didn't want to not say anything, if you get me. So basically I'm just looking for opinions, if I should or shouldn't
and what what would be the best way of putting it to her without it sounding weird or looking like a right twat! haha
Posted Sun Mar 06, 2011 07:27 PM
Chances are she's going to be out seeing other people but at least this way you still get to be in her life. This way if and when she should come back to your area, you've established a good bond that could work nicely towards a relationship. But by all means, tell her you're interested first so you don't get stuffed into friendship hell!
Posted Sun Mar 06, 2011 08:12 PM
Posted Mon Mar 07, 2011 07:57 PM
Keep us posted.
Posted Tue Mar 08, 2011 12:41 AM
I agree with what everyone else said, ask her out, see where it goes.
If it goes well you can still keep in touch with facebook, skype, email, texting. People used to keep relationships for years (when the world was much larger) through snail mail. It is not like she is going to start a long term relationship when she is down there, since she will be back in a year.
If it works out it will make a hell of a story.
Posted Tue Mar 08, 2011 12:18 PM
Posted Mon Mar 14, 2011 07:33 PM
Don't worry about the one week leaving thing. She might use you for her last big fling before departing the island. Too late now of course, but don't forget this for your next departing vixen that you meet.