I Fake it All The Time
Posted Wed Jan 03, 2007 09:49 PM
Posted Wed Jan 03, 2007 10:00 PM
Posted Wed Jan 03, 2007 11:59 PM
I don't know what this means. I know what RSVP means, but I don't know what you are trying to say here.
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 12:01 AM
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 12:24 AM
Take his hand and use his hand to masturbate yourself so he can get the feel how you like for it to be done. Just work with him but do not fake orgasms because then the male will not ever learn anything at all. I have to blame some of this on you and not all is you lovers fault. if you do not fake then he will know what he is doing is not working and try something else. Work with him masturbate yourself and let him watch so he can see what you are doing so he can learn from you.
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 10:19 AM
I think though, that it isn't doing anyone any good to fake orgasms. I agree with thunder-humper's comment that you really should not do this, both for your own sake and for your partner's sake. Why do you feel the need to fake? If he is so obsessed with the idea of you cumming that he gets upset when you don't, or if that would lead him to do things that you wouldn't like (like keep going too long when it's uncomfortable to you) then this is a separate issue and you need to work this issue out. And there's also just the issue of honesty...which is really important in any relationship, and which is really important for building good communication and trust, which is (at least in my experience) what leads to good sexual experiences anyway.
I think you owe it to yourself and your partner to be honest! And then you either work through your problems and all is well, or you realize that you just aren't compatible, but either way, it's important to know!
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 11:32 AM
Regarding the topic, it sounds like a lack of communication. Have you told your partner what you like? You'll never be able to come unless you tell your partner what you like and what pushes your buttons. Remember, a closed mouth never gets fed... and faking it is the worst thing you can do to yourself and your partner. How do you expect to be pleased if you're faking it all the time?
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 12:39 PM
Black Lightning said:
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 05:37 PM
Posted Thu Jan 04, 2007 10:21 PM
At first with my current boyfriend I could never cum. I never faked it though. Just talk about it with your current partner, always the best thing. We talked about it and what I liked and didn't like and now it's amazing.
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 12:57 AM
And for the record I've actually faked an orgasm before. I like to think it was for all the right reasons and everyone went home happy. Disapprove away everyone.
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 04:40 AM
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 05:41 AM
HELP your partner get you off
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 05:41 AM
if you dont bother to change it, the default profile says you're male
call the admins i double posted
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 05:57 AM
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 06:01 AM
Aww you're so sweet and sensitive... :icon_scra
You're coming in in a blaze of glory with a first post like that.
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 11:47 AM
Posted Wed Jan 10, 2007 10:07 PM
sometimes when im pounding away at my gf, she'll tell me, "yea... thats the spot, keep hitting it." and with sniper like precision, i stay at that spot, and angle. and i try my best to memorize the position we were in, and i can hit next time.