I've never posted on here before but had a good (hard) time reading!
I should begin by telling you that I'm a happily married guy to a lady that I love dearly; however, although we are sexually active (we have sex probably around 5 times a week) we are also sexually boring (our sex, though enjoyable, is a combination of either me or her on top, missionary position.).
I have always been sexually adventurous, having many fantasies ranging from romantic to extremely dirty and erotic! (PM or e-mail me for more info!)
My dilemma is that there are certain things that I want to experience in life before I'm too old or dead and I know that I will never accomplish them with my wife, some of there are:
Anal Sex - she is just disgusted at the thought of it but I would love to be with a woman who would be willing/enjoy this;
Bondage/role-playing - this interests her very little yet I have often longed to be handcuffed, ordered around and used by a mistress;
Threesome with another woman - doesn't every guy want this lol?
These are just a few of the things I'd like to experience in my life - I'm a very sexual person - I masturbate probably at least once a day (Is that wrong??) as well as the sex.
I don't want to hurt my wife but also, I'd love to experience at least some of these things - what should I do??? I'm still 'young' (26) and very fit/active but we know how it goes as you get older....
Are these just whims of fancy? Should I be content with what I have and keep dreaming of the other areas of life and enjoy the dreams or do I find a way of realizing some of these dreams?
Sorry if the post is a little wordy or confused but I'm not an accomplished poster or blogger!
Thanks in advance!
This post has been edited by lrg: Mon Mar 14, 2011 12:22 PM