Posted Mon Mar 21, 2011 01:44 AM
so my question is, is there anything you know of that i can take to always be able to go till the woman is done??
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Posted Mon Mar 21, 2011 05:00 AM
Successful sex is not just breaking the 60-minute mark, but what goes on during that hour. Many a woman enjoys the sensation of taking a man in her mouth, and feeling him slowly grow to his full erection; she won't feel that with a man who's become erect not because of her attentions, but from something he swallowed.
When I take a woman in my mouth, and focus my attention on pleasing her, my penis will usually soften in the beginning. As her arousal grows, so do I, so that when she climaxes, I'm more than ready to enter her. I wouldn't feel that process either, if my erection were a manufactured circumstance, not a response to sexual stimulation.
And good sex is not about pumping away non-stop for an hour, anyway. There are Sybian Saddles and fucking machines nowadays; no matter how many pills you take, you will not be able to compete, so rather than becoming more relentless, more machine-like, be more human.
Touch her body, kiss her neck. As you're inside her, whisper in her ear, about how it feels to you, about how you want her to feel, about what's happening, what's going to happen; ask her what she wants, ask her to do what you want. It's not about how much longer you can stay hard inside her, but how much more pleasure you two can share. Most often, her pleasure isn't measured by the amount of time a man can stay hard, but how valued she feels, how much her satisfaction matters, how much her partner actually sees her, responds to her.
We Americans generally expect pharmaceuticals to deal with every 'inconvenient' condition our bodies are in:
Tired? Take this to stay awake; Keyed up, take this to get some sleep.
This'll charge you up, this'll cool you out, these are the same as eating the lunch you say you're too busy for; this'll let you eat certain foods without the natural consequences. This will take away a headache, but it won't help you identify or correct the cause of it. And this, well take this, man, and you'll be fucked up!!! No shit- it's too cool!
For our own individual short cuts, fine, whatever. But sex is supposed to be a shared experience, and a man who puts too much emphasis on duration, and not attention and technique, has lost sight of what it is to be a skilled, sensitive, satisfying lover.
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2011 06:56 AM
At your age, you are doing a great job. However, as most, not all, men get older, there is a point where sex becomes more difficult.It becomes, as life goes on, 3 times, 2 times, then 1 time a week or less. If he has a choice between sex or a nap, he let her know when he wakes up.
At that point... when a guys goes to have sex, even with foreplay, he may fail once in a while. I will guarantee the woman will say...."DON"T YOU FIND ME ATTRACTIVE ANYMORE?"...because it always worked before.... a second blow to a man's already fractured ego. This will have him scrambling for ways to "fix" it and not repeat that nightmare. I think keeping the wife satisfied is job one...a job we guys never want to fail at. On the other hand, I don't think there is a need to support the major drug companies at $10-$12 a pill, 6-10 times a month. So, natural enhancers enter the picture. I think taken once in a while and not as a daily habit , works best.Yohimbe, found in many enhancers, is a substance to have respect for...and to take only in very small quantities. It can screw you up. Moreover, these roots, tree bark etc can also cause digestive issues. Each of us is different. As you say, enhancers are not for everyone.
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during the main event you will know how to pace yourself.