Why don't I seem interested in sex with the wife anymore?
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 07:48 PM
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 08:04 PM
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 08:24 PM
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 09:48 PM
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 10:37 PM
Posted Sun Apr 03, 2011 12:44 AM
I don't get why your doctor suggested it would be good for your sex life?!
When I used to take anti-depressants, they even made me stop thinking about sex completely. And when I wánted to perform, I couldn't.
I think it might be interesting to go visit another doctor, so you have a 2nd opinion ...
Posted Sun Apr 03, 2011 01:11 AM
GET OFF THE ZOLOFT >>> its most likely the problem private message me if you would like to chat about it
Posted Sun Apr 03, 2011 02:39 AM
Anti-depressants will definitely affect your sex drive! I say change doctors or at least get a second opinion! Try changing location like rent a motel for a night and buy your wife something provocative to wear for that special night.
Posted Sun Apr 03, 2011 08:36 AM
aerobic exercise. get your heart pumping and your body moving to produce those healthy chemicals your body creates.
stress, marital ruts, tick tock life schedules, every day parental issues, can all strangle your sex drive. try to be a more spontaneous in day to day operations.
maintenance sex. when sex becomes a "on this day at this time" affair it can lose it's luster very quickly. i know sometimes its hard with everything going on.
have a date night and go to a strip club together. nothing hotter than your wife buying you a lap dance.
spend a night with your wife talking about sexual fantasies.
flirt more with the mrs. show her that you still find her a sexy beast.
get off the viagra at your age.
I feel you have a mental block towards sex. your routine is such that even when you look at other women you are subconsciously placing all the dulldrums of your day to day life on them and they too become unattractive. lets say one night you have an erection problem. the next time you are focused on whether or not the problem will happen agian, sure enough you focus on it so much and are soo worried about it that it indeed happens again. and again. and again. even though there may be nothing physically wrong with you. the viagra only masks the problem, not get to the cause.
This post has been edited by TheShade: Sun Apr 03, 2011 08:36 AM
Posted Sun Apr 03, 2011 06:21 PM
I know I shouldn't be using the Viagra at such a young age but it seems like the only thing that will even put me in the bed. I use to fight to get sex and now it seems like since she finally caved in I am no longer interested in it. She has done the lingerie, its hard to even do date night because we don't really have anyone to watch our kids. Strip clubs...LOL that one is definitely out of the question. Hell I have never even been to one by myself or with any friends and I know for a fact she would not be up for that.
This post has been edited by Zanitar: Sun Apr 03, 2011 06:21 PM
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